first date ideas?

I'm not the most experienced in the subject but have been in your shoes a few times. I'm still a senior in college, but the one thing i'm finding is the old way of dating doesn't work. Try to just "hang out", go out for a cup of coffee or ice cream or something. Dinner and a movie is too formal, try to just get to know her.

 

ice cream and a movie. and buy her something cute. it worked this summer.

 

tell us tell us
although, chances that she's a car gal are very slim

 

That would be cool if she were a car gal, but if not she might think you're trying too hard.

 

strip club. if shes down for that shes a keeper...

 

How much you want to spend?


For a big(er) ticket item I would see if the local airport has a charter service. Not to go anywhere, just about 30 min in the air to look at the town and school from on'high. Take a camera and enjoy the coolness.

For a thriftier night, I like the ice-cream idea. Maybe a movie. If you know her roommate ask her what this girl likes.

Also see if there is any cool art or historical event going on. Most towns of any size tend to have one or two in the fall.

Lastly I recommend the blowjob. It always works for me. Gets me coming (sic) back time and again!!

 

Memorable move:

Write down three different scenarios and seal them in envelopes.....

When she gets in the car, look at her for a couple seconds to get her attention, fan out the envelopes and say, "You pick the evening"

Slam dunk!

 

Make sure its not a scary stalking look so she dosnt speed of driving

 

My list for then envelopes:

1) Blowjob

2) Blow Job

3) BlowJob

 

You don't need envelopes, just a hooker with a merchant account!

 

wait, I'm confused. Is it the blonde or the brunette?

 

You guys crack me up
The airplane. I'm going to have to do that.

 

Yeah! You do that!

 

I know!!!!! Bring her to your place, log on and show her pictures of other peoples' cars! YEAH!!!!!!!!!!

 

woah woah watch out, don't connect me to this one..

 

Be confident! Of course it won't!

 

But if you get her up to your place by telling her you wanna look at the internet, she's already in the bag anyway!

 

MAKE her dinner. So much better than buying it for her. How's the weather there...? If it's nice, make it outside. Showing that you put some effort into it goes a long way...

 

Yup. Then watch a movie at the house. If you have roommates, get them out. It seems like you are trying to hard, the simplest stuff works, trust me. You will get to know her, it will be just you and her in a private place, it's perfect. Good for mature people, movies and ice cream is for HS kids. You need to pick up some game from a player! Oh yeah, don't forget something good to drink.

 

Take her out to a simple dinner. Nothing too fancy and preferably someplace you are comfortable at. You need to Relax as that reflects confidence. Going to a formal/fancy restaurant is not a good idea. It sets a standard you dont want and with your age she will probably feel awkward. Save the fancy stuff for later.
However, a hip/trendy place with a bar area may be a good/fun way to go You can get a little round table for 2 and order off the bar menu.

While your with her, dont look around at other girls, smile, and talk to her. Make eye contact with her as she talks, direct the conversation about her with questions etc. Girls like to talk and they like someone who listens and interacts.
Going to the same school, you should have several common topics that will develop, interrupting trains of thought, back and forth, thoughout the night.