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  1. SefacHotRodder

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    #26 SefacHotRodder, Nov 18, 2008
    I'd hardly say that. We went though a lot together. I already miss her so much. I just want to talk to her and hold her and be with her. She brought out a side of me that nobody else has
     
  2. djui5

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    #27 djui5, Nov 18, 2008
    Take some Zoloft, seriously. And stay away from the crack rocks :)
     
  3. Zahiba

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    #28 Zahiba, Nov 18, 2008
    Better that Sertraline than that damn Risperdal. Poor Rats! :(
     
  4. WILLIAM H

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    #29 WILLIAM H, Nov 18, 2008
    Heres your problem, the 8 girls probably convinced her to dump you so she could have fun w them

    when chicks are single they want single chick friends to hang out w, Guys just get in the way

    btw, best way to get over chicks is to throw yourself into something you are passionate about, gym, cars, sports, school, whatever

    I would highly suggest however that you read THE GAME by Neil Strauss, its a real eye opener

    You dont Really need A gf by the way, whats wrong w having 3 or 4 or 5 ? Trick is to be honest & tell them what you are up to
     
  5. SefacHotRodder

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    #30 SefacHotRodder, Nov 18, 2008
    I have. I read the mystery method too. It helped me a little to get this girl. I just don't consider myself that much of an outgoing person

    I'm just not like that. I get attached too easily
     
  6. wax

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    #31 wax, Nov 18, 2008
    Clearly, Soft Rock is the answer.
     
  7. GatorFL

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    #32 GatorFL, Nov 18, 2008
    Chris,

    Sorry to hear this. Lena struck me as a nice girl, you guys made a nice couple.

    You've received some good advice. Let me give you a little more. No matter what happens, whether you move or you get back together, a breakup is the best thing that can ever happen. It'll either separate the wheat from the chaff and you'll be closer, or you both will move on.

    If you decide to have that party Rob mentioned, let me know. :D
     
  8. SefacHotRodder

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    #33 SefacHotRodder, Nov 18, 2008
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    Thanks Duane. I agree, we made a nice couple. I also agree with the statment that a breakup is the best thing that can happen, either outcome will probably be for the best.

    I also think i'm just so into this girl that i'm not really being rational. I love her so much and we did so much together (like come to Florida ;) ) as well as the fact that she was really my first real girlfriend that i sometimes forget that since school started, i've been pretty miserable and school started back in September. I really meant it when i said that she is/was my life. I would really do anything for her, its just how i am.

    I just talked to her online (i know, i know. Whatever) and just asked if she's ok and stuff. She seems to be as upset as i am and she just said that she thinks we're on different paths now. I guess thats one way to look at it



    Its just going to be hard knowing i don't have her anymore. We used to watch our favorite tv show together before going to bed next to each other. This is just a lot to deal with
     
  9. agup48

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    #34 agup48, Nov 18, 2008
    First off, get well soon. :eek:

    But, in Arizona, girls can't live with their sorority or in a house of more than 4 females because if they do Arizona law classifies them as brothels. Learned that on my first day of college in Sociology. :D
     
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    #36 agup48, Nov 18, 2008
    That cheered me up :D :D
     
  12. Jimbo49

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    #37 Jimbo49, Nov 18, 2008
    Don't stress too much Chris, I went through the same thing as you this time last year, and things do get better. Hurts like a mo-fo for quite awhile. Just get out there and have fun doing whatever it is that you enjoy.

    Go check out some nice cars, go for a drive with some mates and get lunch somewhere, go to a pub and get a few beers in, whatever!

    There's been alot of great advice on this thread, and I think the PM Schatten sent you will be rather useful too!
     
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    #38 LUV 4REZS, Nov 19, 2008
    The best thing I can tell you to do is watch the movie Swingers with Vince Vaughn in it. It is a funny as hell movie and it will give you all of the advice that you need to get over a relationship. Good luck to you, it will get better!
     
  14. Remy Zero

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    #39 Remy Zero, Nov 19, 2008
    sorry to hear about that Chris. i know we're more less the same age, so i think u should just chill a bit, and focus on first things first. like someone said, whatever happens, don't let this affect ur grades, most important of all.

    other than that, i would advice you to avoid her whenever possible, and get into some activites that will take ur mind off it. oh yea...pick up the weights, it will definitely help a lot ;)
     
  15. SefacHotRodder

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    #40 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    Thanks guys. I actually have come home for a few days. I got really upset last night and needed to just be home. I'm going back tomorrow night.

    I'm just having a really hard time with this. I'm trying to just get my mind off it, but i keep coming back to everything we did together that won't happen again. I just really miss her.
     
  16. WILLIAM H

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    #41 WILLIAM H, Nov 19, 2008
    Good, you'll have to be outgoing to get a new one

    Most everybody gets attached rather easily

    its called One-Itis when you think that One chick is THE ONE, Its BS, She wont seem so special after you drill a few hotties

    The sooner you get out there and start crushing Pooon the quicker you'll get over this and start feeling better
     
  17. WILLIAM H

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    #42 WILLIAM H, Nov 19, 2008
    Thanksgiving is coming, the supermarkets will be full of chicks, just go talk to some

    Great opener is "What are you making for Thanksgiving?" "What are you making for Christmas dinner?" "Where are you going for New Years?"

    Its a great excuse to find a party that could have some hotties and hit it

    With the holidays coming chicks open up easier and the closer Valentines Day gets the more open chicks get bcus they hate being alone on V Day
     
  18. Steveny360

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    #43 Steveny360, Nov 19, 2008
    Oh and a new rug too. You da man.

    To the OP, forget about her and don't listen to the radio for a minimum of 3 months.
     
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    #44 Stackhouse, Nov 19, 2008
    Persian .. (made in china) ;)


    LMFAO LOL SOOOOOooooooo..... True!


    ;)
     
  20. SefacHotRodder

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    #45 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    Thanks guys
     
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    #46 Cajun, Nov 19, 2008
    You go to school in FLORIDA???? Man, get some strange ass. You will feel better.

    Just remember, all men take that first REAL hit. We ALL DO. This feeling will pass. Before you know it, you will have another woman that makes you wonder how you could have been so crazy about this one...then she will leave, you will move on, and the cycle will continue...
     
  22. SefacHotRodder

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    #47 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    I go to school in NJ


    Me and Lena visited Florida over the summer and met up with GatorFL briefly
     
  23. djui5

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    #48 djui5, Nov 19, 2008
    Yep :)
     
  24. SefacHotRodder

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    #49 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
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    I'm not sure how the school gets around this (school exemption?) but i know for sure that if you have more than 4 living together OFF CAMPUS here in NJ, it is classified as a brothel




    Today has really sucked
     
  25. WILLIAM H

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    #50 WILLIAM H, Nov 19, 2008
    What year are you in college ?

    College is like the Mecca of crushing Pooon

    Get to work bcus when college is done your access to giant masses of available hotties will dwindle sharply unless you live in a target rich environment like South Beach or LA
     
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