Dealing with a break up?

Chris,

I said the same things as you after each one .......................... or was it 20 , or 40, or 50, or ................... AFTER EACH one ................

Listen to WilliamH.

 

hahaha.

 

that's how the town my sister went to school in is, except it was 6 or 8, can't remember which. damn, my room at my old fraternity house could have been pegged every night,
seriously, it'll get better, i haven't been in a serious relationship in a while, but every one i've been in i've gotten over in a day or 2.

 

I am sorry to hear that. Not to get you down, but tomorrow will suck too. But a little bit less than today. Then the day after that will suck a bit less. And that will continue for a while, until slowly you stop dwelling on what you had and begin to realize what you have. Believe it or not, one day you'll look back on this relationship and wonder why you missed it in the first place. Trust me.

 

Invest some moey in the stock market. You won't think of her again.

 

NJ, FL, SO WHAT. The same advice applies.

Also, William H is right...you are in a target rich environment in college. Fire away my man. I PROMISE that the next one will make you forget about the last one.

The funny thing is that somewhere down the line, when you LEAST expect it, this chick is going to call you and want to reconnect and you will have very little feelings for her. Trust me on this. Give it some time, and throw some ass at the problem.

 

yep.

 

LOL, funny we agree now

This has happened plenty, Just about ALL of my exes at some point wanted to come back

 

Trust me on this

You really have NO IDEA how many older guys would trade places w you in a heartbeat w the kind of access you have to 19 & 20 yr old hotties all around

You need to lay down your baggage and move on bcus you wont be in college forever

Read THE GAME again and if you can do an RSD workshop and whenever you are not doing homework, go hang w your friends and concentrate on polishing your game until its as focused as a laser

Then chicks will be chasing you and you'll wonder why you were so upset today

 

Throw a "I just broke up with my gf" party. Women will sympathize with you

 

1. "It's a dry campus", "I live off campus", etc etc are just excuses. William is right - college is the ONLY opportunity in your life like this. Very seriously, I've thought about going back to business school with the added bonus of meeting quality women. Do whatever you have to do - throw your own party, attend random classes, join other clubs, go to concerts, whatever you can think of.

2. Deleting her off AIM is fine, deleting her number is semi-dangerous. The only reason is because if she calls, the number will show up and not her name, so just make sure you are paying attention.

3. "The best way to get over one woman is to get under another."

Happy hunting dude.

Edit: There is no real rush to start going after women if you aren't ready. Take some time, find yourself again, and go back out there with a new, fresh attitude. Women can smell the lack of confidence from a mile away, so if you're not completely ready, give it time. Just not too much.

 

Got an image of her in your phone too? Save that number. Just change the picture. Not of her. Go outside right now and take a picture of dirt. Each time she calls, you'll be reminded of what she is or what she has made you feel of yourself. Alternative to that, you will always care for her, there is no questioning that, just don't sink back into it.

The worst thing you can do is dwell on that situation. Please... go over that thread I linked you to. Anytime you think these thoughts, read that thread. Go back and re-read it. Don't get hung up on this siutation man! And if you need to get away, and get out of town, head on over to Texas for the weekend. Someplace not so familiar is the best place to get out.

 

do this ASAP, like this weekend, and dont be mopey. Read THE GAME before you go and just start w some warm up sets, as soon as you get to the party talk to EVERYBODY, even its just "Hello, my name is_____, you going home for Thanksgiving ?"

chicks want leaders and they want friendly guys who are not creepy

When you invite the chicks back to your apt talk it up as if it was a Mansion and make sure you have anything they want there so they tell their friends and come back

 

Dude. Seriously. PM Sent.

 

that's more like it!

 

Resist!

You're better without her!