Ferraris and women

Like most of you, I enjoy the finer things in life. However, my choice of women has been less than stellar. While I love younger, hot women, the ones I meet and eventually date have all turned out to be golddiggers of every magnitude from subtle to outright, unabashed entitlement (the last one).

My question to you all is how do you hide or downplay your assets if you like these finer things in life? Some of these "finer things" like Ferraris scream $$$$$.

Or are most hot women golddiggers to a certain degree?

Thanks for your advice and feedback.

 

Dude,

I drive a dirty Toyota truck around...it's usually a friend who drops the Fcar word in casual conversation......then later followed by "HOW many??????"

But the answer to your question on women is "yes"....LOL!

Find one older, that has seen things money cannot solve, they realize there are other things to life!

 

A girl recently took me to task in my latest search for true love....

"you are looking for her in a BAR!!!"

"No" I said, "this is a DANCE HALL!"

Sure enough, the next one to take me home had been dancing with me two evenings straight, something her first two husbands never did! So it takes a few other skill besides "driving Ferraris"...........I did the two steaks JUST RIGHT on her %^$&%^ing gas grill......THAT was the tip over!

 

The gold-digging species is very detail-oriented. Even if you pull up in a beat up, 20-year-old Corolla, they still look for other clues, like your shoes, your watch, any jewelry you might be wearing, and so forth. Even down to your nails and how well-manicured you appear to be.

Stereotypically, I think you're also fishing in the wrong age bracket. Keep your lure out of the 20-38 lake and cast that weighted leader into the 40+ ocean. A 20-year-old girl looks at your hand and her eyes immediately covet the ring(s), bracelet(s) and watch; a 40-year-old women looks at the same hand and imagines how it will feel on the small of her back. Vacate the jello shots-section of the single scene and make your way down to the wine cellar.

 

Look for natural beauty, not pasted on.

Time spent in front of the makeup mirror is usually time not spent reading Camus.

 

Right on the money! (Pun Intended)......I live in L.A. where there is practically a gold digging industry of young women and men for that matter looking for the "big catch". These girls are pro's and can sniff out cash so fast that a bloodhound would cringe in shame. They will drop you so fast for the bigger, better deal when it presents itself. I have seen it happen to a lot of guys. The funny part is that it's so obvious to everyone but them that the girl is only there for the money. It's sad but very true. I luckily have been married since owning my first Ferrari. When I met my wife 6 yrs ago I was dating a lot of girls in their 20's while I was 37. I met my wife who was in her early 40's, owned her own home, business, S Class benz, etc. She has the body of a porn star, looks like she's 35, knows herself, accepts me with all my insanity and NEVER asks me to change. She's basically the UBER MILF!
So I agree with NNO once again, find a hot Cougar that is cool enough to be your best friend and dont look back!!!! Oh yeah, when I was on the fence about spending 200K on a car it was my wife that said "lets buy it and enjoy it before we're too old".....You just gotta love that!

 

You really need to read THE GAME by Neil Strauss

if chicks ask me what I drive I say Chevy

If she sees you in your Ferrari then its ok, but if she doesnt and then you talk about it to impress her you come off as a wanker

not all chicks are gold diggers but make sure you are not buying her stuff as soon as you meet her

instead of taking her to dinner, take her to Starbucks or out for ice cream until you get a handle on what she's all about

Dont even mention the Ferrari or $ as it makes you come across as having low self esteem and justifying yourselfd and seeking her approval

 

"Beware of whores who say they don't want money...the hell they don't...what they mean is they want MORE money, MUCH more."

- William S. Burroughs

 

+1, not an amazing book. But it can open your eyes to many more things if you choose to take it seriously.

 

Don't bet on it!
My 1st X cost me 200K in alimony, and the house.
The second was cheaper, only 100K cash, but I had to buy back her half of My house too.
Both were over 40.

From here on out, I'm sticking to short term rentals.

JOhn

 

Judging by what some of you folks think is a 'hottie' in the 'girls and ferraris' photo thread, might I be so bold to suggest you're looking for the wrong 'qualities' in a partner?

 

Who was it that said
"If it flies, floats, or fornicates, it is cheaper to rent it."

Or how about this one
"The next time I want to get married I will find a woman I hate and buy her a house."

 

You guys are forgetting a universal truth about women...

A woman will get the richest guy her looks can afford. That's the rule. There are exceptions but very few.

Additionally, girls who have always been hot have not had to be very nice to get whatever they have wanted all their life. Then as they age, the looks fade and you are left with a B**ch. Much better to try to find a girl who was a late bloomer and who can appreciate the attention she is getting.

If you spoil a girl you will create a monster. I've seen it with my friends and family. They start out ok, not too much of a gold-digger but then after a few years of being spoiled the entitlement mentality comes out. It's tough out there.

 

An ex girlfriend just popped back into the picture...just divorced / late 40's / good looking / CEO / $500k per month income...what would you do..........................?

 

hahaha. a buddy who is trying to cheer me up, sent me this:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qh9ZZgDqzAg


If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her
Then she starts to do
The things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.

 

That's strong.

 

That was me

If it Phx, flies, or floats, Rent it

 

When a little baby vulture grows up to be an adult, it's still a vulture. Gotta pick your birds more carefully.

 

drive them hard
show them off
dump em before they cost you any money!!


of course like cars every once in a while you find a keeper!!

 

I live in an environment where the talent pool is so shallow, you hit that bisquit even if she IS a GD. It would take a pretty astute car girl to discern an F-Car by brand though she could probably discern an expensive ride from the interior. Peeps with lotsa money have a hard time looking ordinary, there are too many giveaways. I'm pretty shallow, so I'd put up with it for a while, if she were hot.

 

IMHO, anyone even thinking of getting involved with an American woman should spend two weeks in Rio de Janeiro. You will be cured and you will be planning your next trip on the plane ride back.

 

Met them all have you? Something tells me not. What are you? 12 years old? C'mon...

 

HELP

 

My wife was 40, never married and did not know what a Ferrari was when we met. She was also an attorney and did not need my money or emotional support. When we met, I was fresh off a divorce and driving an '89 Toyota p/u. She had an '89 Toyota 4runner, both blue. It was meant to be. Eighteen years later, it's been great. I don't feel used and she sometimes thinks I spend too much on cars but doesn't begrudge it because she understands what it is like to work hard and enjoy the spoils. My first wife was very high maintenance financially and emotionally. It really sucked.

Dave

 

You need to move to a more target rich environment