Dealing with a break up?

But you're the one still posting about it in this thread.

 

I can't define it if I'm not party to it. Just protect yourself bud...

 

I didn't intend it as an insult. Merely an answer to your question of why some people may think that you're obsessing over the girl.

 

IF one is going to post about it; how to handle a breakup;
http://ferrarichat.com/forum/showthread.php?t=230304

 

Sorry to hear about everything bro.

 

I'll tell you exactly how to get over a breakup because I went through a bad one myself about a year and a half ago. It's quite simple, but it will suck for a while. In fact, it took me almost a year, but in the end I am much, much better off. You completely stop all contact and completely ignore any contact attempts on her behalf. Otherwise you just drag out the inevitable, loose value in her eyes, and become an emotional crutch until she finds the next best thing and completely shuts you out forever. Take control and gain the upper hand on yourself before she makes the first move. Otherwise, she'll stop contacting you and it will send you back to square one all over again. Ignorance in these situations is bliss. If you don't take this advice, this episode could continue indefinitely and when the ball drops again the initial hurt will come back again full force.

Forget this chick and find someone that wants to be with you. Take her off the pedestal.

Oh and enotalone.com as pathetic as it might be...is a great outlet to express your feelings, situation, and emotions about your situation and it was a great help to hear strangers talk about my situation and analyze it from an objective view.

 

Oh, for the love of all that is hole-y.

Posts 2-6 on this thread = Done!
http://ferrarichat.com/forum/showthread.php?t=222462

Not.

Ignore at your own peril, boys...

 

Hanging out? Oh crap. The friend zone!

 

Not if it's a 'friend with benefits'!

That can work out quite well......believe me!!!

 

"Insert I'm with Stupid Smiley"

 

Stay strong Chris. It'll take time, but everything will get better. Surround yourself with positivity!

 

Nothing gets you over the LAST one like the NEXT ONE.

Works every single time.

 

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In my opinion, the easiest way to deal with a breakup is to focus your energies on things. In my case, I build a new computer, change my stereo setups, look online for technologies that intrigue me, do a lot of things with my children or work on things around the house.

 

or approach other girls in clubs, cafes, gyms, the stores, strike up a conversation exchange numbers, meet up for a date, and see where it goes

 

I'm sure he's over her by now, it's been a year since his initial post.

 

thats why god gave us hookers............... go out get some, you ll soon forget all about said g/f.

besides, she was prob a beast anyway.