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How can I justify a second Ferrari to my wife.

Discussion in 'Ferrari Discussion (not model specific)' started by Simon99, Apr 24, 2024.

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  1. ryalex

    ryalex Two Time F1 World Champ
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  2. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    An update: I just got back yesterday from a month in Thailand. My wife gave me her blessing to go. Alone, which might amuse some of you. But it was a "health resort". I did lose 10 pounds. So when I arrived home from the airport, she was very happy with the result. Then I surprised her by driving straight to the bike store where I bought her that new e-bike she's been quietly nudging me about for two years. So now that's down in the garage. She's happy. The kids are happy. Everybody is healthy. Things are good.

    You might be thinking, now is the time to present the idea of getting the Testarossa. And you would be right. But I am taking off on Sunday on a week long, 1,700 mile rally in the mountains in the 308 with a collection of other male misfits and their toys. So disappearing again right after being back from a 1 month holiday in the tropics lost me a couple of points. But the reality is, she enjoyed the lack of snoring over the last month. Nevertheless, I think after the return from that trip is about the right time to unveil the plan. There is the distinct possibility that the black one in the photo above turns out not to be the one. If so, it might end up taking another year or two until the right one comes along. But to lay out the plan in advance means no surprises when it does happen. Because as I watched the video below, I think of the guy probably telling himself, "I waited too long." I am in my 50s, in decent physical condition and have no financial concerns. So if not now, when? :)

    https://www.youtube.com/shorts/h6udr_7eg4I
     
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  3. craze

    craze Formula 3

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    Let hope she isnt a member on fchat haha
     
  4. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    Haha yes, there is always that possibility. But in reality, there's nothing too underhanded going on. In a partnership, I wouldn't be the first one doing a little "manoeuvring" to get to a good outcome. In the overall scheme of things, it's just a man toy. I'm not a drunk, I don't do drugs, gamble or fool around with other women. If having one of the most iconic wall posters of the 90's downstairs in the garage is the most self indulgent thing I get into, some wives out there might say mine is actually fortunate! :)

    I just haven't broached the idea of a Countach either...
     
  5. fatbillybob

    fatbillybob Two Time F1 World Champ
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    How?...you grow a pair.
     
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  6. c928jon

    c928jon Rookie

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    I married an ex communist block accountant, if I can convince her two Ferraris is a good idea then you should have a walk in the park.

    Just make sure you hide the maintenance costs!
     
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  7. craze

    craze Formula 3

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    Lol im very similar
    However im always told how im selfish
    Anyway

    Enjoy the journey fingers crossed
     
  8. Shorn355

    Shorn355 F1 Veteran
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    I'm just the <fortunate/unfortunate?> Opposite- My SO of 26+ years actually encouraged me to buy a Huracan STO I fell in love with in Lauderdale in August- I declined- but she also encouraged me to buy most of my cars- including an 88 Testarossa- and actually saw/found my GT3 Touring- so what was a simple trip to have her Lotus key updated turned into a purchase!!

    I'm lucky- I realize that- but to the OPs point I think an honest and rational conversation with any "partner" will yield a good result- if buying a TR <or any Ferrari> means some ungodly payment and financial risk then its stupid and no fun- and the common sense "wife" would disapprove- If you can afford it and it's not a $$ black hole then do it- you only live once :cool:
     
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  9. Kaylie

    Kaylie Rookie

    Jan 25, 2023
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    What’s worked for me was to buy her something of equal or lesser value first then drop my purchase after that. When she’s over the moon with her Birkin or whatever, she’s less likely to pay attention to what I’m buying.


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  10. gabf1

    gabf1 Formula Junior
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    I wouldn’t mind getting some pointers on selling my wife the concept of walkabout.
     
  11. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    You only live once. 100%. I tell my old friend Carl that when he and I are in nursing homes at 90, watching re-runs of Miami Vice, I don't want him to be leaning over to me, saying, "I told you that you should have bought that thing."
     
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  12. Shorn355

    Shorn355 F1 Veteran
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    So true :cool::cool:
     
  13. jm2

    jm2 F1 World Champ
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    ;) I'm on #7, never asked for permission.
     
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  14. 09Scuderia

    09Scuderia F1 Rookie

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    Why does money in a bank account have more value than money in an 'asset'? All you are doing is moving money from one bucket to another. If you were to need the money, or lose interest in the car...sell it. Money goes back into the account. You are just using the money.

    My personal rules are simple, 1) pay cash 2) Try to buy cars that increase in value. Modern GT Porsches, early delivery Ferraris. (Where I have done very well is vintage Porsches) 3) The first time you think of selling the car, sell it. I had a new 992 GT3 Touring. Drove it a few times, realized I didn't like it...sold. If the car doesn't emotionally connect with you its time to sell. I wouldn't buy a car that I didn't love. If said car is a money maker...thats true love.

    Before you start building a collection. (we have 13 cars) Make sure all of your other financial stuff is locked down. If you have a high level of certainty about your present and future finances, live and don't regret. You only live once then you are dead a real long time.

    Adding this for us married folks...We have been married 30+ years and I have always included her in the decision making process for a car. Over the years she has become a car nerd and appreciates my passion.
     
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  15. Dominik B.

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    The answer is easy: Buy it for her, or make the existing one hers.
     
  16. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    Agree with all of this. And 25+ years here. Still good.
     
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  17. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    BTW I am currently on a 5 day, 3,000km rally in the remote Australian mountains with a bunch of motoring enthusiasts, one of whom brought along his immaculate 89 Testarossa which he personally restored (I think he's had several) and other Ferrari owners, one of whom owns 9. It's like having an AA meeting in Las Vegas. Not exactly conducive to getting me to back away from getting another car!. One of them even offered to go over the car with me. Terrific bunch of eccentric lunatics.
     
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  18. BerkeS

    BerkeS Karting

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    Just take the Jeremy Clarkson route. Having a faster car means getting home more quickly which in turn means you will spend more time with her and the kids, ultimately resulting in them being less likely to grow up as glue sniffers.
     
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  19. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    All men need a friend like Clarkson. He just makes so much sense! :)
     
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  20. GrigioGuy

    GrigioGuy Splenda Daddy
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    Coming in late on this conversation, but have you considered buying the car "for her"?

    "We can go on rallies together, babe"
     
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  21. BerkeS

    BerkeS Karting

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    Bonus points if he registers the car under her name. Don't know how things are in Australia but here in Turkey it doesn't really matter under whose name it is registered so long as you are legally married. And chicks dig having their name on legal documents! :)
     
  22. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    She needed a car when she moved to Australia in 2022. I asked her what she wanted. Her brother-in-law said the Hyundai Tuscon was good. So I went straight out and bought a new one for her. She loves it. And she's never had a new car in her life. Come to think of it, neither have I! (Mainly because I like cars with a bit of 'character' that seems to be so lacking these days. The technology is great, to be sure. I just can't stand being beeped at every minute when I'm driving, or backing. Or changing lanes. Or whatever.)

    But yes, maybe I'll buy her another car - something a bit more classy. I'm on this rally and there's a bunch of interesting cars here. The 456 looks quite civilised. Even the Aston Martin vantage is a decent looking car. At least they sound good. I'm just not a hybrid person. There is this 700hp McLaren here as well. But that's just, well, nuts!
     
  23. Simon99

    Simon99 Karting

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    I may well do that. So when I get a speed camera fine, it gets mailed straight to her :)
     

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