All BS aside. Are you happy?

hey man, be sure and let me know if you get a gig. I love seeing bands when I know someone in them.

is that you know who in my nhood?

 

I don't drink, do drugs and quit smoking after 30 years. I found out out there are more people living my current lifestyle than the one you mention your friends live. By persuing this life style I am surrounded by what I feel is a better group of people, especially in the NW chapter of the FCA. I think you are on the right track. Time to move on it.

 

Nope, not her at all. Sondra (your neighbor) did give her a ride back from TWS on Saturday night.

I'll let you know when we play next.

 

not to hijack the thread, but what kinda' music?

 

www.daylighttitans.com or www.myspace.com/thedaylighttitans

 

Thanks for the words of encouragement

Thats is why I need a career change, I work in Hollywood so you can see the type of people I have to work with daily....I met my gf at the gym back home and had no idea she was involved with PB until a month later. Her contract is up soon and I think we can take some time off and find a new direction in our lives. She is working on her MBA and I am in a position(unknown to her)where I could comfortably retire. We'll see what the future holds very soon I think

 

Little side track but I hate Hollywood people and know what you mean...


Antony

 

It's always nice to have "choices" and value in the things that you do. Good luck.

DJ

 

You have every right and are 100% correct, 99.9% of these people are users, loser, or abusers....Some are all the above.

Thanks for the well wishes, hopefully things will work out for us which I am sure they will

 

It seems like the people I meet here are all Users and Abusers. Yea im real excited I moved out here

 

Not really, no.

 

A smart PB playmate? Sounds like a winner you have.

As for the LA scence, that would be the LAST place I ever want to live. Been out that area two or three times, and hated the people and the lifestyles. Drugs, the "bling" (not that buying a Ferrari is bad, just that the people buy them so they can be "cool), plastic, and just a lack of culture it has.

Would you move and invest yourself into a new business, ect. or whatever?

 

Why's that?

 

im quite neutral at the moment

 

When I met her we were working out and she just started talking to me, after seeing her 3 times up there we finally started talking outside the gym...After a month of use hanging out I found out she was a Playmate for a month in the mag and was actually shocked. I then questioned everyone I knew that knew her and everybody said she was truly nice and sweet. She is cute in person and looks nothing like her pics, I will admit that I have had way better looking gf's from a general male p.o.v but to me she is the most beautiful girl in the world She is a shy person that did the PB thing and now regrets it deeply. She had 1 boyfriend before me for 4 years and does have guys all around but she is seriously smart and sees through their BS. Graduated with a BA and now working on her MBA and ready to move on to the next chapter in her life. She did PB all on her own and looks at it as a mistake that was made by a knieve kid. Her parents basically disowned her for awhile but have come to live with the fact the past can't be changed. Still has to do some videos and shoots but once the contract is up she is done. Another plus is that to this day she has no idea what my net is, just thinks that we both make about the same$$$$....Drives a VW and is smart with the little money she makes, knows that her M.B.A will make her a ton more cash than her a.s.s She makes me happy and I do the same for her so we are doing pretty well in that dept....When we first met everyone around her was telling her how happy she looked and no one knew why, we kept our being friends and talking a secret to keep the rumor mill off.

 

Did'nt exactly answer your question:

In my case I know what I have(in her as a person)

Most of the other girls(97% at least)are truly stupid whores with zero common sense and can't do any type of productive work in society.

 

Does she have any good friends?



Antony

 

Can only agree on that. Hard words, but sadly true.

Found a gem with my wife

 

PB Playmate is a good call, but let me explain..

I agree with the 97% "Stupid Whore" average. A small percentage do it for the quick cash while they're working towards something else; for others it's the pinnacle of their existence. A girlfriend or future wife posting naked (before you met her) should be a non-issue for most guys; this isn't Penthouse or some other raunchy mag. I'd even give the thumbs up for my own g/f posing in PB (no Matt, she wouldn't).

To the detractors- try watching your wife bone some other guy in front of you and let me know what you think. When you've grabbed a towel to wipe some dude's spooge off her face (like it was old hat) you might think Playboy was a blessing.

 

I guess there are other ways in life to get to "this" something else you speak about.
Maybe they're harder, but more rewarding as well.
People won't see you like a piece of scum ready to do anything for a -small- pile of cash.
I would never give thumbs up for anyone posing naked, it's not really the kind of things that will make the human kind any better.
Also, if you end up watching you wife boning some other guy, well, rent a gun, buy a bullet (or better, get 2)....

 

I'd argue that the female form (done right) is a work of art.. some should be catalogued for future generations regardless of the arousal factor- Jane Mansfield, Marillyn Monroe, Betty Page & Shannon Tweed et al tend to agree with this.

I was the guy watching and mopping not so long ago. Believe it or not, it's quite a turn-on if you keep everything in perspective. Doesn't hurt when she brings "friends" home for you to enjoy as well.

 

For the work of art, you mention 1-2 exceptions, but who remembers even the girl in the poster of last -let's say- August....?
Also, for the other thing, well, you do what you want, but a friend of mine started this stuff and ended up his honeymoon trip alone, his wife finishing the trip with the (third) best man....
For me, it was never a question.

 

Obviously you can get up to bat and strike out.. 97% don't make it past that brick wall of public awareness but I'm being very generous.

As for the other thing- did your friend know what he was doing? I know exactly what I'm getting into (this time) and it doesn't include a best man. I'm not into the luck of the draw and I don't believe in destiny- she's here for a reason and it begins (and ends) with me.

 

I'm suprised no one asked for pics....LOL.