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  1. Fred 02

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    #1 Fred 02, Mar 14, 2006
    I had dated this girl on and off through out hs. and she really irritated me with certain things she did at times. I just saw her for the first time since she went to college and shes changed for the best... we get along much better and things feel natural(more so then before) Only prob is that after asking me to be her b/f again not once twice but three times this past fall and unwillingness to try a open long distance relationship she has moved on to an open/fun relationship w/ a guy at her school(nothing serious)... I want to as well however something really caught my eye about her for the first time... So do i start talking to her again and tell her how i feel or just let her come back if she wants and leave it as is... I'm really happy for her becasue she seems real happy and want whatever is best for her...If it's not me thats cool!!!

    she still calls me with her problems...I don't try to fix them i just listen and try to be supportive... i think there is still something there but i don't want to screw up our friendship if i come out of nowhere after rejecting her...

    advice?
     
  2. PAP 348

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    #2 PAP 348, Mar 14, 2006
    Been there,done that 3 years ago.Just get rid of her man! Its for the best :D
     
  3. Stephanie

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    #3 Stephanie, Mar 14, 2006
    It's not what caught your eye it's the thought of her with someone else.. if you didn't want to date her before she got with him then don't do it now.
     
  4. Asian1118

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    #4 Asian1118, Mar 14, 2006
    ill pm you once i get to a computer im on my psp and type very
     
  5. vincent355

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    #5 vincent355, Mar 14, 2006

    Yeah right...listen to the girl......



    Why we need more girls on f-chat!
     
  6. steve f

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    #6 steve f, Mar 14, 2006
    just use her for sex
     
  7. darth550

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    #7 darth550, Mar 14, 2006
    Uh HUH!

    Friends, right? So you now you get to be her emotional tampon four or five days a month when no one else will listen to her BS.... but she bones someone else?

    Sound about right?
     
  8. vincent355

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    #8 vincent355, Mar 14, 2006

    Another PSA by your pal Darth!

    :)
     
  9. CMY

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  10. darth550

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    #10 darth550, Mar 14, 2006
    The book is always better than the movie!
     
  11. Jerrari

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    #11 Jerrari, Mar 14, 2006
    Take it from Jerrari, whatever you do my friend....just DON'T think about her moaning and groaning while digging her nails into that other Stallion's back, it does no good. :)
     
  12. Maranello Guy

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    #12 Maranello Guy, Mar 14, 2006
    Sure it's useless :D
     
  13. BigDog

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    #13 BigDog, Mar 14, 2006
    ugh...

    take it from me....

    drop the wench like a hot potato... it'll def be for the better



    TRUST ME!
     
  14. wrs46

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    #14 wrs46, Mar 14, 2006
    This thread gives a new meaning to "F-chat".... ;)
     
  15. JSinNOLA

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    #15 JSinNOLA, Mar 14, 2006
    I have to agree with most everyone here. All that is happening is that you now realize that she is not really an option anymore, so you will huff and puff about it despite the fact that you don't even really want a relationship with her. Happens to everyone at some point.

    Think about it, it shouldn't take her dating someone else for you to magically realize that she is good for you. If she wasn't good enough for you BEFORE dating someone else(and at this point in time you were intent on not dating her), then what about her has changed by her having a new guy? Nothing!

    We are possesive by nature. It's just like if you previously dated(even only for a very very short amount of time) a girl and eventually a friend of yours starts taking her out. You still get irked from time to time. But when you think about it, it's for no real reason.
     
  16. Mario Gonzalez

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    #16 Mario Gonzalez, Mar 14, 2006
    or get over it and move on!! what's the matter with you anyways, no fish in the pond?
     
  17. darth550

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    #17 darth550, Mar 14, 2006
    ROTFL! :)
     
  18. nathandarby67

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    #18 nathandarby67, Mar 14, 2006
    Dude, that's just cruel!!
     
  19. JSinNOLA

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    #19 JSinNOLA, Mar 14, 2006
    but the truth hurts, literally !!!
     
  20. 134282

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    #20 134282, Mar 14, 2006
    I agree with Stephanie ( :eek: )...
     
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    #21 darth550, Mar 14, 2006
    Send her a lifetime supply of bonbons and she will agree with you too! ;)
     
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    #22 134282, Mar 14, 2006
    Am I the only one who can't help but think of Katie Segal with a big red wig everytime someone mentions Bon Bons...?
     
  23. AJS328

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    #23 AJS328, Mar 14, 2006
    Dude, lose her number and tell her to lose yours! She'll f your head up bad otherwise!
     
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    #24 Etcetera, Mar 14, 2006
    Yeh! He gets the whiney, *****ee, snotty-nosed, blubbering version without the sex! It's a preview for marriage.
     
  25. J.P.Sarti

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    #25 J.P.Sarti, Mar 14, 2006
    Keep in mind most all women are sluts and always looking to upgrade, have sex with one of her girlfriends or someone she hates at work she'll like you even more.
     
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