Anyone taken another guys girlfriend from them?

I did once. he was on a sports team of mine. he was a grade A ****** bag. She didnt know him very well. Long story short, she got to know him, we started dating, he found out, smashed my windows in, then I kicked his ass after I found out it was him and then was charged with assault and battery. little b*tch.

Fortunately I was still in highschool, and 17.

 

I wouldn't know.. I don't tend to act on said "lust." I wish I could be "one of those girls" that does but it's just not me. How boring, I know.

 

WGAFF?

 

Ehh don't sweat it, guys (well I do at least) have a sliding scale of how dateable a girl is based on how quickly you can get her into bed. As much fun as it is to have a girl swinging from the ceiling fan on the first date, it doesn't bode well for the long term date status (if thats even what either person is after) There are exceptions to the rule, but not very often.

But I find it hard to believe that anyone (guys or girls) hasn't hooked up purely from lust. To what extent varies, but we have all done it, if not more so than with long term relationships.

 

Hahaha!

 

Agreed.. on that first part, at least that's what I hear from my guy friends.

LMAO at "swinging from the ceiling fan."

It's not that hard to believe.. I've never done it.

 

That's already being, um, "discussed" in another thread called The Bikini Thread...

 

This is true about abusive relationships, which is a weird psychosis girls fall into of 'I can FIX' him! Then the guy guilt trips the crap out of her when she threatens to leave.

But as for the 'dripping wet hot girl' that always goes for losers. This isn't always the case. Now, this goes into the discussion of why girls go for 'losers' and not 'winners'/'nice guys'.

The problem with 'nice' guys is a problem of not being assertive enough. Not setting boundaries, not demonstrating your self-worth, and not being 'male' enough for a woman. That's why nice guys typically get the 'lets just be friends' when they are hoping that being uber 'nice' to the girl will somehow win her over.

The truth of the matter, a lot of the times(not ALL the time), is that a girl simply wants the man to exude confidence and self-worth. The things that are associated with this type of behavior is often times misconstrued as being overly cocky, obnoxious, or just plain rude. But keep in mind, if a girl sniffs you out as being a pushover(from your initial interactions with her), she will instinctively assume that she can walk all over you. It is seen as a weakness. You will be bossed around.

The trick is to know you are confident. SHOW her that you are so, and then you can move onto the stages of framing a healthy relationship.

I definitely don't want to date a girl who is a pushover, and it is even more ingrained in women to not want to be involved with pushovers.

Trust me, you can be very confident and self assured WITHOUT being a 'loser', a *****, or a complete tool.

It's why women want a 'knight in shining armor'. A man who can protect her, with respect, be self assured, and have a presence about him. They definitely DON'T want a 'pushover with shiny pocket protectors.'

Command respect, she will respect you, and you should respect her. It's the only way in my book.

 

Sorry, but that scenario happens to be more difficult than girls in steady relationships. Girls that are on the rocks in their respective relationships think that the next guy needs to be Prince f-ing Charming or it's not happening.

It's extremely difficult to "get with" these girls. Usually it's them who does the selecting in this specific case, and there's not much you can do about it because if their current relationship is falling apart, she's probably fed up with men and our decisions at that point. And if you do manage to break the force-field, you never what will happen. You might have just pulled the most difficult catch, and yet the next day your shoelaces could turn her off and it's game over, champ. It's a tough call, but your best bet is to play uninterested or ignore her.

Darth is also right. Girls are ALWAYS looking for the "upgrade." If their current boyfriend gives them 5 orgasms a night, and they're on top of the world, they're still looking for the guy who can give them the magical 6th. It is a lonely game when you come out alone, but hey life's too short to not be keeping girls/ex'es on the backburner. Unless you're married, but I'm not in that percentile.

 

Werd.

 

To answer the first part of your question: Because women's hormones cause them to cry, eat chocolate, and retain water- generally socially acceptable behaviors.

To answer the second, see a legal dictionary. "Cave" and "hair" may not be explicitly mentioned, so feel free to generalize a bit.

 

Heres some food for thought,

Right now im in the transition between leaving my ex-girlfriend, and moving on to her best friend. This best friend initiated it, and i'm only going that way with her because i want too. I really don't think you can take a person away from their partner, something happens on both sides to make that person want to leave that relationship and start a new one.

Hope that makes sense

 

Here's food for thought. History will repeat itself.

 

Hmmm.
Whe'll I never found the NEED to and always believed someone who would leave their significant other while things are GOOD is not someone who I would want near me. (but thats just me)

THIS IS THE PROBLEM FOR ME
but someone that was in a decent relationship with someone else or thought they were happy.[/QUOTE]

As far as have I "stolen" another mans girl YES "BUT"
1st NEVER anyone I knew (thats MY rules)
2nd I need to know the other relationship was over 1st.

If we are talkin' about a one night stand girl non-commited roll in the hay w/ some hottie who is miserable w/ her other. Yes I have BUT you gotta run like hell afterwards these women have a tendency to forget about the agreement before we got together.Let me re-phrase MOST of these women are etc.etc.

MY355

 

Just means i got with two girls that now hate eachother in the grand scheme of things

 

divide and conquer.

 

Add: "React to life in an emotional mannar" "only do what 'feels right', regardless of who is hurt" and "PMS" (catch-all for anything you crazy fems do that's so off the wall and we still let you get away with it because of those great boobs. Damn it all."

 

Hell yea. History will repeat itself, you'll bang HER best friend next.