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Here is MY SORRY!

Discussion in 'Northwest' started by roytoy2003, Apr 15, 2006.

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  1. roytoy2003

    roytoy2003 F1 Veteran

    Jul 30, 2004
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    Roy L. Cats
    I must say that there was never any intent to hurt or demean anyone with my post, AS a matter of fact for that VERY reason I provided an OFF-SITE link. I also made it VERY clear that "IT IS NOT FOR EVERYONE" AND included I warned you!! There are MANY people who have asked me for some "light hearted fun" stuff.......it is not like it is XXX PORN. I have to put it on the same line as walking by a movie Theater.......

    The signs says "DEBBIE DOES DALLAS", you either go in or you don't. I truly believe that's what I did with my POST, I gave you the sign AND the warning. YOU should not have ENTERED if you did not want to see.

    I MADE every effort to MAKE sure it was NOT ON THIS SITE, and it was not!

    I am truly sorry if this has caused any discomfort to anyone. It was not my intention at ALL. So if it has casued discomfort you have my sincere "SORRY" out to you all.

    It is quite funny that this brings to mind the old saying.....
    "HE WHO IS WITH OUT SIN, THROW THE FIRST STONE". I am sure I can dig up many poor judgement calls on EVERYONE on this board, but I dont. My life is to short not to enjoy and to waste on who is good or not.

    I have always treated everyone with respect. If I do not care for someone, well I dont do things with them, I dont sit with them, but I do still give them the respect they deserve as another human being. Not everyone is going to like you and you shall not like everyone as well. If you disagree with me, not an issue, just don't associate with me. I WILL NOT BE OFFENDED!!.. Life IS WAY to short for me to care what others think of me. I am happy with my life and how I run it. I sleep well at night.

    I will see all of you at future events, BUT NOT AS YOUR DIRECTOR. I hearby resign my post as Director of Activite's for FCA NW Region. I hope this makes some people happy and some it will not. I will support anyone else into this position, regardless if I care for them or not.

    Thank you for the consideration and time you have taken to read this.

    Respectfully,

    Roy L. Cats
    Seattle
     
  2. eric

    eric Formula Junior

    Aug 3, 2001
    705
    Albion, CA
    Roy,

    I actually disagree with some who would say your post was inappropriate for this forum. You didn't actually post anything that hasn't been done by dozens of other members of this community. You even went out of your way to adhere to the protocols of this community in warning of purient content. Heck, you played by the game. You clearly have a fan club of other members of this forum who find your contributions to this forum to be appropriate and encourage you for more.

    Rob Lay has allowed far more provacative postings with impunity. He sets the standard for what is or isn't allowed here, and some of us find his standards inappropriate. But it's his sandbox, and we can just decide to not play here if it offends us.

    But I do take exception to a member of the board of directors of the NWRFCA, whose responsibility is to guide the activities of that club, posting this, and many other simlar things that have been posted on this forum. Your actions here on this forum do reflect in part on the FCA, and for that reason, I find fault in your behavior.

    So I thank you for resigning your position on the board of directors of the nwrfca.
     
  3. Ace503

    Ace503 Formula 3

    Feb 22, 2006
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    I am sad that this event has caused you to resign Roy. I think you could have planned some great events for the club, however, given the circumstances, I understand your decision and respect it. I think this situation was blown out of proportion, and I know I will get an earful now for saying that because im only 18, I dont even own a ferrari blah blah blah but its my opinion. I hope to meet you at one of the events soon Roy.

    Matt
     
  4. RED GTS

    RED GTS Formula Junior

    Jun 14, 2004
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    Good grief, He warned you. Dont want to see the pictures, dont click on the link. I guess if you are dead set on *****ing about Roy then you had to click on the link.Here are a few of the more asnine comments.

    etip- "I dont want any part of the club if its run like this" Like what? where did Roy mention the club, this is Fchat not the club. Does you dumb comment reflect poorly on the club?
    Gary- "and not posted on this site for all to see" Gee Gary, he specifically didnt post it on the site. Dont want to see it , dont click on the link, If you do click on it and see Roy with a flamingo get off fast.

    So fair warning to our next activities person. Everything you do reflects on the club, dont cheat on your taxes, run stop signs,kick small animals, take pictures of strippers ect ect
     
  5. MordaloMVD

    MordaloMVD F1 Rookie
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    I'll second that.
     
  6. MordaloMVD

    MordaloMVD F1 Rookie
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    So fair warning to our next activities person. Everything you do reflects on the club, dont cheat on your taxes, run stop signs,kick small animals, take pictures of strippers ect ect[/QUOTE]

    You are correct Ken, when you are on a board of directors, everything you do does indeed reflect upon your organization. Keep in mind that a lot of what we do is charity work and therefore I also thank Roy for doing the correct thing and resigning.
     
  7. corsa_italiano

    corsa_italiano Karting

    Mar 30, 2005
    129
    Call me inconsiderate...that's fine with me, but some people are waaay to sensitive. Turn on your tv, you'll see the same thing, turn on your radio and you'll here an ad about the same thing. It's everywhere...so stop being a bunch of prude's. If you don't want this "crap" in your society..then it's up to you to leave yourself out of it. so get over it....
     
  8. BillyD

    BillyD Formula 3
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    Feb 28, 2004
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    I was ready to join the club then the "Anti Life, Liberty, & Pursuit of Happiness" police show up. Since I don't belong to the club I probably have no right to chime in here but folks it was just pics, no lives in danger, no 200mph runs in traffic, no drugs, etc. Fast cars & fast women have always gone together, its an Italian thing. Lighten Up!
    Bill

    ps I hope Activity Directors are easy to come by, people who volunteer their time are precious
     
  9. tmwight

    tmwight Rookie

    Jul 19, 2005
    14
    Well as an active advocate of Roy as Entertainment (oops, Activities) Director, I was too late to see what the post was, but I have heard. I thought Roy would activate the activities of the Club with new, innovative, fun, ideas. I WAS RIGHT. I don't know if it is too late for Roy to resign his resignation, but I will re-nominate him.

    We are here to have fun. As someone said: lighten up. And Roy, thanks for the shake up.

    This is just a little car club, not the United Nations.
     
  10. Jdubbya

    Jdubbya The $10 Trillion Man
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    Boy how quickly the crowd can turn.

    So let me get this straight, it's alright to talk about Roy's female friends, it's alright to take pics or video of them, it's alright to make comments about them....etc, etc, etc........ BUT it's not alright for Roy to post an off-site link WITH a warning showing off some of what almost all of you have oggled.

    Seems like a pretty severe case of HYPOCRISY to me and that is one thing I CAN'T STAND.

    Wasn't it just a day or two ago that comments were made about what "hottie" Roy would be bringing to Cannon Beach. Scroll back through your memory banks about some of the comments and pictures that have been posted in this forum about women. I don't think there are very many of us at all that would be able to cast that first stone.

    Maybe it's my turn to say "I don't want to be a part of club that's run like THIS"??
     
  11. albertl

    albertl Formula Junior

    Oct 23, 2002
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    Hear, hear John - I second that!
     
  12. judge4re

    judge4re F1 World Champ

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    You mean you have to be a member of a club to enjoy your own car?
     
  13. ExoticRobert

    ExoticRobert Formula Junior

    Nov 5, 2003
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    Sorry to see you step down Roy, ask Dana it is a hard job, and the job takes many hours to work, I thought you would be great at it with your love of cars and people. I don't think there was a lot of hands in the air when the job opened up. Hope to see you at the up comming events!
    R
     
  14. $$$=SPEED

    $$$=SPEED F1 Veteran

    Aug 18, 2004
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    Depends who's asking


    Third on that one John


    Mike
     
  15. Aeroengineman

    Aeroengineman Formula Junior

    Oct 5, 2003
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    I was only a potential candidate that lasted for a month or so before I offended enough people I felt I ought to quit. Roy lasted a month. I think TMW ought to step up - he's retired and has plenty of free time whereas Roy and I have real jobs! At least Ted isn't as sensitive as Roy and I are and is likely to survive more than a month.

    Anybody for nominating Ted?
     
  16. ucorders

    ucorders Formula Junior

    Dec 27, 2005
    398
    Portland Oregon
    Nothing like strippers or suggestive sexuality to offend people. I think the day I spent 170k on a car to drive on my lunch hour while fully knowing other people are living in extreme poverty was the day I loss all credibility to chastise others about morals. Owning an exotic is all about decadence. Roy likes girls and cars. For others it is a ridiculously large house and cars, boats, planes ect, ect. I don't think you are going to find a modern day Gandhi or Jesus surfing F-Chat looking 430 or G car. I thought the warning on the link was enough.
     
  17. Spasso

    Spasso F1 World Champ

    Feb 16, 2003
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    But does he have a head for details?
     
  18. Spasso

    Spasso F1 World Champ

    Feb 16, 2003
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    You are right,


    About the NWRFCA

    The Northwest Region of the Ferrari Club of America (NWRFCA) is a local chapter of the Ferrari Club of America and is comprised of members from the Northwest United States. Ferrari enthusiasts who live in the states of Alaska, Idaho, Oregon, Montana, and Washington make up our membership.

    We currently have approximately 200+ club members in our region, most of whom own at least one Ferrari automobile. Ownership of a Ferrari, however, is not required for club membership. We invite anyone who lives in the the Northwest and who has an interest in Ferrari automobiles to join us!

    The purpose of the NWRFCA is the same as the purpose of the National Ferrari Club of America, which is to:

    1. Inspire ownership, operation, restoration and preservation of Ferrari automobiles throughout the country.
    2. Serve the members as a source of information regarding Ferrari history and technical information.
    3. Organize meets and exhibits.
    4. Encourage fellowship among Ferrari enthusiasts.
    5. Assist members in locating Ferrari automobiles and parts.

    ................SO WHY DON'T WE BE ONE?

    If the above 5 items aren't stimulating enough for any of you then WHY ARE YOU HERE?

    [size=+3]IT'S A CAR CLUB![/SIZE]

    DJ
     
  19. tmwight

    tmwight Rookie

    Jul 19, 2005
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    Thank you very much, Dave Tegeler for thinking I am stupider than you. You didn't want to be activities director, why do you think I would? Life is too short to deal with those who dissed Roy. And, of course, no one could do as good a job as Roy would have.

    Actually I now call for the Entire Board to resign or I will hire an Independent Investigator to perform thorough background checks on all Board Members too see what skeletons are in their closets. And to help them out of those closets!

    And I hereby nominate Roy to be the Albert Lim of the Ferrari Club: absolute dictator. Then we'll have a fun club!

    No, Dave, if nominated I will not stand, if elected (fat chance) I will not perform. Or whatever!

    Ted Wight
     
  20. donv

    donv Two Time F1 World Champ
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    Jan 5, 2002
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    I want to throw in a comment here. I'm sort of on the fence on this-- on one hand, I think it's hard to fault Roy for posting his link. I didn't choose to look at it, but it was appropriately labelled and I can't really see what the big deal is.

    On the other hand, I have an 8 year old son who I would like to bring to club events sometimes, and I do want to be sure that events are appropriate for everyone, or at least clearly indicated if the content might be inappropriate.

    I do appreciate Roy being willing to step forward and put the work in. And I'm sure most of the events he would have planned (and I would have considered attending) would have been fine. But it is a consideration.
     
  21. albertl

    albertl Formula Junior

    Oct 23, 2002
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    Ted - I'm the benovelent dictator! Mr Dictator to everyone else! As for the Lamborghini Club - you can own whatever you want. It is only a car club - we are here to share our love of cars.
     
  22. RED GTS

    RED GTS Formula Junior

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    Ted, I really need to stick up for Albert here. He was in fact voted in as Benevolent Dictator and has performed admirably in that capacity. We performed a background check and he assured us that he had never broke the speed limit and did not know where De ja vu was located.
     
  23. roytoy2003

    roytoy2003 F1 Veteran

    Jul 30, 2004
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    PLEASE, ALL invloved........I will be OK......I WILL not jump of a bridge or anything........I WILL be coming to all the vents and stilll have a great time with all of you.........EVEN ALBERT!!

    So lets leave it lay where it is and all go on!

    Happy Easter to all of you.......

    PS A little disclaimer on this "I AM JEWISH" LOL LOL
     
  24. BritBlaster

    BritBlaster F1 Rookie

    Jul 25, 2005
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    Take:
    1 Part Puritanical Extremism
    1 Part oversensitivity
    2 Parts Jealousy
    2 Parts Political Correctness zealotry
    and
    5 Parts Hypocrisy

    and you have the "Roy Must Resign Martini" -- a guaranteed favorite at your next party... :-<
     
  25. BillyD

    BillyD Formula 3
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    Britblaster,
    Sounds like Roy & America are fighting the same battle/people.
    Bill
     

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