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  1. SefacHotRodder

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    #76 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
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    Convo almost over....



    will update soon
     
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    #77 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    She wants to know why i don't miss her and why i'm not sad or miss any of the things we did together
     
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    #78 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    Yet, shes not trying to get back together apparently
     
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    #79 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    Cliff notes: She wants to know why i'm not sad and upset and missing all the things we used to do and wants to know if i miss her. Shes not trying to get back together with me but wants to know why i'm not sad. I said i've been miserable, we weren't working and we both agreed that it wasn't working and so i'm glad its over because we both knew what was coming.
     
  5. GuyIncognito

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    #80 GuyIncognito, Nov 19, 2008
    first reaction: she was playing a game with you and it backfired on her.
     
  6. SefacHotRodder

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    #81 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    some classic lines in this convo

    LeCi***23: im mad at you
    LeCi***23: for not caring that im gona
    LeCi***23: gone*
     
  7. WILLIAM H

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    #82 WILLIAM H, Nov 19, 2008
    Dont talk to her if at all possible, its just going to mess u up more

    Call your friends, go workout, pick up the new hobby you always wanted to try

    I would HIGHLY suggest you take some classes in International Finance next semester
     
  8. SefacHotRodder

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    #83 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    I am. Why do you say that? Lol
     
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    #84 djui5, Nov 19, 2008
    Wow women are f'n scandalous. Stop talking to her immediately. Ignore her at all times. Just let it go. She's gonna drag your ass through the mud with all this bull****. You gotta be a man and shut the door on her.
     
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    #85 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    I'm on the phone with her now
     
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    #86 GuyIncognito, Nov 19, 2008
    Seriously? dude.
     
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    #87 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    Its not what you think. I'm being strong
     
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    #88 Schatten, Nov 19, 2008
    It is what we think. Trust us! You gotta go. You are meeting some people down... somewhere.
     
  14. SefacHotRodder

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    #89 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    She'll just call back and then call the house. I can't hang up
     
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    #90 Schatten, Nov 19, 2008
    You can 'not answer' because you are busy. This is difficult because she was your priority and focus and now, she's not. Remember the picture of dirt in the phone. Go do it man!
     
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    #91 SefacHotRodder, Nov 19, 2008
    Basically she can't understand why i'm not showing any signs of sadness or being upset or whatever and wanted me to tell her i still loved her and missed her. I said i'm not doing it because it won't get us anywhere and i said that dwelling on stuff isn't productive at all etc etc

    I said over and over again that we tried and it didn't work and we both agreed and it was mutual so she really shouldn't be asking stuff like that from me


    I'm not even upset anymore, i'm just pissed that she would call me crying and expect me to do stuff that i would normally do when we're together



    I wish so so much that it was different. I really do still love her more than anything in the world but i just don't think it can work and i'm just trying to get my head around it and its just really hard for me right now. She really was the first person i have ever truly loved
     
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    #92 BAKY, Nov 19, 2008
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    She might of hurt you but you will find someone to heal you!

    You just need to have her come over, sweet talk her, grudge **** her, and then ask her if she wants a ham sandwich or something before she leaves....game over! LOL
     
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    #93 Darolls, Nov 19, 2008
    Don't succumb to her insecurity, she's looking for her own redemption. Be strong and let her know her 'games' won't work.

    BE STRONG, MY FRIEND!!!
     
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    #94 DrStranglove, Nov 20, 2008
    COOL! Ask her about blowing you! Its the only way to be sure.
     
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    #95 Ferraribot, Nov 20, 2008
    If you can, take a trip somewhere, anywhere, even if it's not far. It'll make you realize how many people there are out there in the world and how many possibilities there are for you in the future with other women. It may suck now, but everything gets better with time.
     
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    #96 SefacHotRodder, Nov 20, 2008
    Thanks guys. I didn't get any sleep last night. I kept waking up to thoughts of her. This is so hard
     
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    #97 WILLIAM H, Nov 20, 2008
    Bcus its gonna hit the fan in 09 and then you'll may have a clue where to put $

    Now unplug your phone, turn off your cell

    Where are you going for Thanksgiving ? Make sure you have friends around
     
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    #98 agup48, Nov 20, 2008
    Soo...should someone email her this thread? ;)

    Just kidding. :D
     
  24. tundraphile

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    #99 tundraphile, Nov 20, 2008
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    Bingo. She doesn't really give a damn if you are hurting or not, she just wants to make sure you are hurting worse than her.

    Answering the phone and talking about the relationship or your current feelings only feeds her own ego. Some (most?) women get some sick satisfaction knowing that they can stomp on a guy's guts by placing a phone call.

    While I don't really subscribe to The Game philosophy for long term happiness (although it does work for short-term *****), this guy has to realize that the time to be some sensitive sap to this girl has passed. DETACHMENT should be the goal at this point, and blubbering on the phone doesn't accomplish this. She will string you along for weeks or months, maybe even give you a pity **** just to mess with your head and reset the hurt-o-meter.

    Don't fall for it. If you get the chance, nailing her best friend would be far more useful at this point.
     
  25. SefacHotRodder

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    #100 SefacHotRodder, Nov 20, 2008
    I'm not going to flat out tell her i miss her and still love her and tell her that i wish it was different. There is no point. She was talking about getting back together at some point and i just don't need to deal with it right now. We broke up 2 days ago
     
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