That was what I meant by "quid pro quo", not that there was a special consideration in the future with that dealer, but that you felt you were giving him something (referral) in exchange for his time spent with you.
Sorry, I must have misunderstood your post. That's exactly what I did. Whenever someone takes the time to work with me, I always try and help them out...its a Karma thing.
You were a tire kicker. You called him up and asked for his best price. He gave you a price that should have had you buying. Instead, you told him you couldn't buy. Then YOU called him back to check on that price again because you thought it was too good to be true. He said it stood. Then you came up with another reason why you couldn't buy. In the end, you didn't buy a Porsche. Now I am sitting here trying to figure out how you managed to waste MY time in addition to the sales guy's.
That's not what occured factually. But does it really matter? If I am just a tirekicker, then, in this economy, a tirekicker is better than an empty showroom. In the end I didn't buy a porsche. In retail, every call is a possible lead, not every one will lead to business, but you should always position yourself as if it may...especially in this economy. If he thought it was an exercise in futility he probably would not have answered my call. Putting that aside, What I would love to know is how "I" wasted your time. YOU chose to respond, I did not invite you to. I assume that you are capable of budgeting your time and determining what is an effective use of it. Therefore, I can only assume that your choice to read my post, click the necessary button and type not one but two responses, indicates that you believed it was worth the effort to express your opinion. Thank you for that, but don't pretend that I am somehow responsible for any regret you feel over expending the energy, any more than you are responsible for the energy I have spent responding to your post. Of course, in my instance, I am burdened with the additional knowledge that I am responding to a post that did not add anything substantively to the discussion, that is, outside of designating me a tirekicker. But I am glad you were able to get that off your chest. Personally, I think this topic has been beaten to death and has grown quite circular, but what do I know.
if someone calls a second dealer to ask for the best price they should be ready to buy. if you are still shopping the window sticker price should be fine to begin doing your research. when you have narrowed your search to one vehicle putting dealers in competition is fine. i must say i think you are a tirekicker. please accept my apologies
no apology necessary. I can't stress this enough...I have no problem being called a tire kicker, or anything else. I put the fact pattern out there and invited opinions, I certainly did not expect everyone to agree with me...if I had, I would have slanted the story in my favor. I can see where you would draw your conclusion and I agree with your rational and appreciate the manner in which it was presented. Of course, whether I was or was not a tirekicker, the dealer will never know. So, the question would be, tirekicker or not, was the dealers behavior appropriate. I think people have come out on both sides of the issue. Maybe I was wrong, and I think I can live with that and the input received in this thread it will definitely be something I consider should I ever come across a similar situation. Thanks for your input. As a PS, I always feel compelled to respond to threads I have started, out of a sense of board etiquette. However, so not to offend, if it is all the same with everyone, this will be my last response on this thread. This is something that occurred almost a month ago, and while I realize this thread may last forever, and new people may be reading it for the first time, I have really said all I can. Thanks again for taking the time to respond, whether you agreed with me or not.
Joe....you crazy tirekicker I'll see you again next week @ C&C. Don't think I'll make it tomorrow due to weather. The P-car doesn't like the white stuff
Totally agree. It's just a deal, he saved himself a lot of time by simply offering you the car at his absolutely best price to see if you were a buyer. You weren't. I love these kind of salesmen. Cut to the quick, don't waste my time or yours by trying to schmooze me or kiss my ass. A purchase to me is not about getting my ego stroked, it's about buying what I want at the price I am willing to pay- that should be how it always is for BUYERS. He deftly identified you as tire kicker.
I would have felt offended and moved on without a thought. I'd be fired on the spot if I tried to get away with this level of client service in my industry. Don't worry though, the days of selling 80k SUV's left and right are long over for the next few years...he'll have to have an attitude adjustment if he wants to survive.
It seems to me -- and my experience isn't selling cars, it is selling professional services -- that the dealer did a poor job of reading his client. I don't think anyone would argue that honesty isn't rewarded in sales, but the salesman does have a choice as to how he presents that honesty. With some a testosterone-laden appeal to the ego works well, with others it needs to be a bit more gentle. That said, it is entirely possible the dealer was simply tired or frustrated or didn't care, and that he was simply venting or taking his frustrations out on someone. Which isn't the best business practice, but is entirely human.
No offense but it sounds to me like you might have wanted a blow job than a Cayenne for your mother.....the saleman was up front, honest and correct.....you DID NOT buy the car. I just bought a Mercedes CL63...I dont give a rats a__ about the saleman, but he was a really nice guy. I want the car I want, at a great price. Nothing more nothing less. We agreed on a price, wired money, and set up shipping in under 30 minutes. When I buy a car, I buy the car not the saleman.
I can't help but think that the salesman is posting in a 'car sales' forum somewhere right now: "Weird sequence with a tire kicker last month So, this guy calls me and asks for a lowball price right on the first cold call. I give him a killer price, cause I know he's gonna walk, and sure enough, he calls back to check it cause no one else will meet my price. He still wouldn't bite. Oh well, I'll get more from the next fish........"
Most salesmen I have dealt with only care, and rightfully so, how much money they can make on the deal. Its always about the money because, after all, it is a business. If the can't get what they need from you they WILL wait for the nexy guy and they won't miss you one bit. If they feel that, for one reason or another the car may be hard to unload for whatever reason, economics, wrong color, then they will deal at a lower price and be more receptive. Its their living and they really are not looking to be your friend. Too many buyers of cars, especially exotics, get too emotionally involved when they negotiate because they are drawn to the car so strongly. Believe me salesman, who sell cars for a living, do not fall in love with them like many buyers do. They are just a commodity to make $ from.