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How do you end up a friendship ?

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  1. Schatten

    Schatten F1 World Champ Owner

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    =)

    Don't do it man. Once you do, you'll get wrapped up in it again. If you do decide to do something, only text. No talking on the phone.
     
  2. amenasce

    amenasce Three Time F1 World Champ Silver Subscribed

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    This part was already done, i met with her and told her i couldnt see her anymore. She understood and told me that whenever i want to see her or know about her , i have her #.
     
  3. amenasce

    amenasce Three Time F1 World Champ Silver Subscribed

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    I did but it is just that i find it hard to believe that she is out of my life.
     
  4. amenasce

    amenasce Three Time F1 World Champ Silver Subscribed

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    I ll text her.
     
  5. GrigioGuy

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    What part of 'no contact' are you not understanding?
     
  6. BMW.SauberF1Team

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    No, don't even do that. Drop it. You're done with her. Moving on to the next girl. Bye bye.
     
  7. Gilles27

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    Just be honest with her. She'll get it.
     
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    hahahahahahaha... And you didn't tell me about this part over the phone? I feel betrayed. :(


    Facebook her. Keep it ground neutral.
     
  9. Papa G

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    Nooooo!!

    Focus on your new girl.
     
  10. Schatten

    Schatten F1 World Champ Owner

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    Andrew... what did you do? or better yet, what did you not do?
     
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    Etcetera Two Time F1 World Champ Rossa Subscribed Silver Subscribed

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    I can arrange to have a large Samoan manslap some sense into you. That is, if you feel you need help.

    :D
     
  12. The Speedfighter

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    Mate serious just drop everything and have no contact with her for at least a month (maybe more if you're not over her). I did the same thinking should I contact her or not. We didn't contact each other for at least 2 months. Afterwards we became friends and nailed her a couple of times. Then the contact got lost and it went on like that for 2 years. Nailing, no contact. Nailing etc etc. Now I'm at the other side of the world and we e-mail each other regurlary just as friends like I told her directly from face to face.

    Just be honest and tell her sorry but I don't want to have contact just for now and we'll what happens.
     
  13. Darolls

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    Big mistake; don't do it!

    Andrew, get some gonads, don't 'Wear your heart on your sleeve'.......99.9% of the time it won't work out in the end!
     
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  14. amenasce

    amenasce Three Time F1 World Champ Silver Subscribed

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    Ok so ...Almost a year later, we are friends again.

    I have been dating another girl for almost a year but i have the occasional drink with Julie. Just to catch up and see how we are doing.

    Is that a bad thing ?
     
  15. Carsleuth

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    No, it's not a bad thing. There's no reason you can't still be friends.
     
  16. Darolls

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    Dan, as you gain more experience you'll find it usually doesn't work that way. In a Utopian world yes, in the real world no.
     
  17. amenasce

    amenasce Three Time F1 World Champ Silver Subscribed

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    Yes and im somewhere between real world and Utopia !
     
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    Andrew, I hope it works out for you. I've been in the same position more than once. :(
     

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