I bet your wife/girlfriend was pissed about you using the dish washer :O) I can't talk, I used our oven to bake the wrinkle paint finish on my plenum... that went over like a "fart in church"! :O/
i just popped in one of those deep clean tablets in after i'd finished with it no one would ever know, spotless
Regardless of what you do if you drive the car regularly the "patina" will come back pretty quick. It's only a mater of time.