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I suggest you look into grief counselling. There is a great deal to process, especially with sudden death (i.e., not a long illness). They say that with sudden death, it's important to view the body to help get over the denial part.

Recommended reading--if your open to things other than the standard book in these here parts (the Bible): "Journey of Souls" and "Embraced by the Light."

Last weekend I attended the funeral service of my Ex. Besides the people, I felt some definite presences.

 

Mate nothing i say will take the hurt away, but just remember that you have a lot of good people here on F-CHAT and you will be in a lot of peoples thoughts and prayers, you will be in mine and my wifes thoughts and prayers this evening, take care mate and love those around you, you never know how long you have left with them.

Thinking of you.
Steve.

 

Damn.

I cannot imagine the pain that you feel inside. God bless you and help you and your family in this extremely difficult time.

Also, from what I know of you and your ambition- you will do your father proud.

Respectfully,

Nick

 

Sorry about your loss. I know what it's like to lose a father at a young age. I was 16 when my dad was murdered. Prayers are with you and your family.

 

Well don't wanna get too off base with your loss and this thread. Here's the brief description of what happened: My father was dating a woman for a few years. he was going to end the relationship for whatever reason. she went to his apartment and took his off duty gun. when he went to her house that night she shot him twice in the head.

she's now serving 15-20 for aggrevated manslaughter. I think it should have been death for killing a cop.

 

You bet he is...... Brian, I'm glad your feeling a bit better. I think it's great you got your first banner job in the new office. Just the start of things to come.

Eric

 

Sorry for your lost. I hope the best for you and your family.

My prayers are with you.

 

Brian, I feel so sorry for you and your family.

It sounds like you and your Dad had a very close relationship. Wish everybody could experience that.

Keep your chin up kiddo, and remember, your Dad's watching.

Take care,

John

 

Hey Brian,

I'm sorry about you loss man, no words can take away that big pit in your stomach, I know I have been there, lost my mom at the age of 18 to cancer and my brother three years ago when I was 27.

If you need anyone just to listen just shoot me a PM.


Take care and remember he's truly in a MUCH better place than this.

 

very sorry for your loss.

 

Very sorry about the loss of your dad.

 

My most sincere condolences. Hang in there becuase you're young, you'll pull through and you'll make your dad proud.

 

My thoughts are with you and your family. I'm sorry for your loss.

 

Checking back to see how you are doing Brian. We are all still thinking of you so let us know how you are doing, buddy.

 

Yep, what's up?

 

Sending my condolences. Your dad was sure proud of you or he wouldn't have been telling the world all about you. That's such a beautiful thing to know. It sure is hard to lose a parent. My thoughts are with you. Continue to make him proud and good luck in your new business.

 

Also sorry for your loss...

Based on my own experiences, I have learned to appreciate the widely accepted 'five stages of grief', which are:

1-Denial-"this can't be happening to me", looking for the former loved one in familiar places, setting the table for the person, or acting as if they are still there. No crying. Not accepting or even acknowledging the loss.

2-Anger-"why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back or get even, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.

3-Bargaining-begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.

4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.

5-Acceptance-you have to accept the loss, not just try to bear it quietly. Realization that the person is gone, that it is not their fault, they didn't leave you on purpose. Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals now turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of the loved one.

 

Very sorry to hear about your loss. It sounds like your dad was very proud of you and his family. A lot of people never get to have those kind of relationships with their families. You are truly lucky. I wish the best to you and your family during this hard time.

 

Drive the heck out of that car. He'll get a kick out of it. I'll say a prayer for him and ask for some guidance in my search for a 996tt.