At a train station, the Eurotrash Family was saying goodbye to the 96Impala Family. We don't know who is staying and who is leaving. Each of the members of the Eurotrash Family says farewell to each member of the 96Impala Family. To say goodbye, two men shake hands, and both a man and a woman and two women kiss once on the cheek. An eyewitness named Darth counted 21 handshakes and 34 kisses. How many men and how many women were saying goodbye?