I recently got a hankerin' to change my eBay user name from onefastducati916 to, well,.. UroTrash. Already taken. Never used one time. Dormant. So I e-mail the guy and offer to pay-pal $10 for it. No response. You think I'm the first dolt to ever offer to pay for an eBay handle? What's a fair price for a cool handle like...well... UroTrash!?!
When i first joined E-BAY i wanted fan512bbi it was taken, i tried to change my name 2 months later to fan 512bbi and it was accepted, dont know what happened to the original, but i got it now.
I actually have 2 eBay identities. My regular is: onefastducati916. and my alter ego is: "imareallycheapguy" for when I buy some nasty little thing that I'm ashamed to show up in my feedback for 3 months. My wife is: imareallycheapgal I was inspired by Fan's success the second time so I retried UroTrash, still taken.
If it has been dormant for along time & you cannot contact the user, try contact EBAY directly. See if they would close out that account & allow you to transfer to it. Mine is TXBEBOP, take a look at some the stuff that I've bought & sold. Good luck