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cant open car door for women in todays world!

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  1. tmaxxgod4

    tmaxxgod4 Formula 3

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    me and dad noted in todays world when you try and open a car door for a girl YOU CANT! because by the time you get out of your car she is out... no girl EXPECTS a man to open the car door! TELL ME what has happen in todays world!?
     
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  3. Noel

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  4. Blackbird4life

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    I'll offer to open a door when she gets in, helping her out is kinda in the whipped zone.
     
  5. tmaxxgod4

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    whipped... i guessed i am in the wrong era HAHA
     
  6. Ike

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    I used to see a girl off and on about 8 years ago. The first time we went out she got upset that I opened the door for her. She said she could do it herself and when someone did it for her it made her feel like I thought she was helpless and dependent.
     
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  8. tmaxxgod4

    tmaxxgod4 Formula 3

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    THIS is why men will NEVER figure out women! ill learn to rebuild a ferrari V12 before i learn women LOL
     
  9. TheBigEasy

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    I'd tell her to stop watching Rosie O'Donnell.

    Whenever I am walking to the car with my girl, I always open her door for her when it's convenient. But when we get some where, to tell her to wait while I run around the car would be dumb. Just use common sense and be a gentleman.
     
  10. Blackbird4life

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    I'm not a expert on women, hopefully some female members can give some insight but....I noticed changes

    1. Instead of asking a woman where's she's goin when she goes out, say take care and give me a buzz if u need anything
    2. Feel free to look at other women, as long as you can gave the feeling of comfort and security being around her
    3. Goin out to eat for the first time? Let her pay her share.

    There's others, and I may be wrong....but women are more independent these days. Giving them a sense of "control" isn't going to make it work these days, well in terms of true love anyway. But feel free to put her in check if she acts out of line. :D
     
  11. darth550

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    wait for it...........................................
     
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  13. tmaxxgod4

    tmaxxgod4 Formula 3

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    this friend on my myspace Thaddeus Carlton post bulletins about men and women and this is one of his new ones i wanted to share

    "Men vs. Women 117
    Thaddeus Carlton says:
    Most men are afraid of intimacy. There are many reasons for this. Intimacy leads to fantasy, and it is hard to be anyone’s ‘Knight In Shining Armour’. To this idea, some women say, “I don’t need a man to save me, I don’t really need a man!” She says this to show her independence, what she is really expressing is she wants to die alone! Men have to be needed. This is part of the definition of being a man. Women need to be needed too. Somewhere along the way, women thought they would be more like men if they ‘faked’ a strong exterior. They don’t realize that men have to fake strength for security. Historically, men have even had to fool themselves that they were strong enough to hunt, plow fields, build stuff…but men still needed to be needed. Women have come to believe that ‘working’ places them above needing or being needed. Ladies,…you can’t make love to that six figure salary! You cannot perpetuate the human race by continued estrangement from men. The nature of man is to seem cold and unapproachable at times. This is also for survival purposes. There is no need for women to emulate ‘the survival trait’ that ruins so many relationships for men. Women are better people than men because they don’t ever have to be insincere. In today’s world, with women and men ‘competing’ in the sport of creating distance between one and other, humanity is doomed! Equal rights never meant that women should become men! Women don’t even want to carry children in their wombs any more. Men were created to live by Nature, women were created to live by Nurture. Now, women have been ‘emotionally hardened’ and the balance is diminishing. Women are supposed to keep men from making mistakes related to being insensitive to Life. If women continue to ‘evolve’ or rather ‘devolve’ into pseudo men, there will be no love, compassion or children in the world.

    Thaddeus Carlton
    iTunes"
     
  14. TheBigEasy

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    just crack babies...

    by the way, LOL at that whole post, what a load of ****.
     
  15. Blackbird4life

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    Ha, he starts off with men and ends up with women issues. Clearly he was thinking about a woman when writing that.

    *EDIT* Mr carlton that is
     
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  17. coolestkidever

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    it all just............disappeared
     
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    I didn't do it. :D
     
  19. tmaxxgod4

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    yes you did! why do you lie to everyone, we all know it was YOU! lol :-D just kidding
     
  20. italiafan

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    I only open car doors for women if they are wearing really small skirts!
     
  21. TexasF355F1

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    Opening for them to get out is a bit much imo. Have I done it? Of course, but it's really a bit over-doing it.

    I always open doors for women. And occasionally I get that evil eye that they can get it themselves. But when you're dating someone I don't see a need to do it every single time you drive somewhere.

    Opening doors to buildings...ALWAYS. Opening car doors....only at the beginning of the relationship and on special occasions. Otherwise, IMO, it loses any and all that is "special" about doing that.
     
  22. tundraphile

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    I once offerred to carry a box for a petite co-worker, and she started talking about benevolent sexism and other nonsense. I told she didn't have to worry about me helping her again...
     
  23. ChunkyMonkey

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    I usually open it for my wife to get in the car, but not out....I just rather her get in the vehicle safely I guess, dunno....
     
  24. S Brake

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    Same here, I've always felt that it is unnecessary to open the door for them to get out. When I see other guys open the door, it just looks awkward while the girl just sits there waiting for the guy to get out and walk around to open her door.
     
  25. tmaxxgod4

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    good point!

    WOW... i never found a girl like this yet... if i do ill probably laugh thinking of this post
     
  26. Whisky

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    small, or short ?

    or both ??
     
  27. otaku

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    my latest date didn't expect it and I didn't offer at most I'll open the door from inside the car but yeah usually they don't care and neither do I just as long as they get in :)
     
  28. Bowers

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    I have had this happen on numerous occasions here at the office. Our receptionist is a little old lady and she always asks me to pick things up for her or move things, but if I try to “help” any of the other ladies around the office they get all bend out of shape, so I don’t even bother anymore.

    I actually got a chuckle out of one a couple of weeks ago. One of the more independent ladies here was trying to get into the elevator with a whole bunch of crap in her hands; I held my arm out to stop the elevator door and asked if she got it all. She quickly fired back with if she needs my help she would ask for it. So I moved my hand. The door closed. And down I went.

    As for the open door thing, to a building always, to the car when getting in usually, when getting out of the car though, nope. I honestly don’t think any of the girls that have been in my passenger seat have ever waited long enough for me to get around before getting out on there own. My grandma is another story. I always make an effort to help her out of the car, she old and needs all the help she can get, but even granny has already opened the door by the time I get around.
     

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