If any group knows women, it's my Ferrari brothers (and sisters?). I throw myself at the mercy of the forum. Hear my case: Okay, so I have been admiring a woman from a distance through Myspace. We'll call her Girl #1. We have sent a few messages to each other, but nothing serious just fun/flirting. No real connection other than that. So we finally met in person... her & her friends. Decent group of people for sure.Here is the catch: one of her friends is 100% hotter & more compatible. While Girl #1 seems okay, there wasn't a strong connection. I could probably work on that? But after Girl #1 left the party, her friend & I stayed and seemed to really hit it off! So is there any way to make the leap? Or is this the classic "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush" lesson? Girl #1 may feel like her friends betrayed her if I switched (creating waves which would surely end everything), or her friend may feel that I am a player if I formally announce my interest in her (again, ending everything). UGH Any advice is appreciated. I could probably be happy with girl #1, but might regret not taking any opportunity (if it exists) for the better model. PS - I am not a player and definitely not trying to use both women.