Dealing with a break up?

Tell her to go find someone else to make miserable.

 

Chris,

Enuf already. IIRC, you are a business student at a tough school. As an accounting professor, I know your crunch time is coming up. Don't screw it up over a woman. Like Hank Hill said, you need to shallow all this bs and get back to work. Forget about her. Forget about everybody else. Forget about life and make it your goal to ace every subject you're taking.

I see this all the time. I tell students that a semester is only 16 weeks. 16 freaken weeks out of your young life. Me, I'm old. I don't have 16 weeks to waste doing what I don't want to do. But you're young. Prioritize my friend. Prioritize. You need to focus on what will be important in your future. Blowing junior level courses just ain't worth it.

After finals, you'll have plenty of time to obsess, but not now.

Dale

PS FWIW. My life experiences have been that when a woman falls out of love, that's it. There is no going back. The guy usually ends up crying in his beer and singing "Baby, come back. Baby, p-l-e-a-s-e come back." While it is possible that the two of you may get back together someday, I wouldn't count on it.

 

I was sure I posted a comment a couple days ago, but it's not here...anyway, I know how you feel. Be glad you were only dating. I have been with my wife for 8+ years and our 6 year wedding anniversary was Oct.5. My job for the past 3 years has had me traveling a lot. I returned from a training trip (my last for a long time) on Aug. 21. On Aug. 23, my wife said she wants to separate and wants a divorce. I didn't even know we were having problems...I was the happiest man alive until that day. I guess her boyfriend probably knew, though. She started saying we should separate so we can work back towards each other...I think it was her way to get me out of the house. She was the love of my life, my soul mate (so I thought). What complicates matters is that we have a beautiful 3 1/2 year old daughter. So, I cannot just break ties with my wife and move on...I will be connected to her for the rest of my life.

Silver lining??? My relationship with my daughter is amazing. I have reconnected with old and new friends. I have grown even closer with my folks (all my close friends and family are in NJ while I am in SC -- I am trying to convince my future ex to move back to S.Jersey). I am trying to develop a relationship with God.

Bottom line...life will continue for you. Everything happens for a reason. People tell me that once this is all done, I will eventually be happier than I have ever been...I still don't believe it, but that's what they say. Stay strong...you know what they say: "It's better to have loved and lost than paid and hated it" If I ever do move back to NJ, you'll have another friend.

 

That's what I was told and I refused to believe it...I kept believing we will get back together, she will change he mind, and I will have my life back. I was wrong...

 

Cherry Hill

 

Sure is, I had an account for a while, and then I just started using it more. But I can stop using it if I chose too.

 

Where are you?

 

Why are you home? Go out and get a hooker!

 

or 2 or 3

 

My brother lives just north of you, Bell Mead. Do you go to school at Princeton?

 

Hookers BAD!! Escorts is what you want

 

Perfect pick up location especially on weekends

 

I know the area well. I used to work in Trenton.

 

DATE + MANSECS?

 

He never answered me either...