Im about to get eaten alive in 1 minute :). I just said something really messed up but oh well....
At the time when you two are both going to bounce to different areas meeting THOUSANDS of people, do either of you think it would be easy to maintain any longterm relationship? If anything, you would want the option to do your thing. No question about it. Of course all of this sounds logical enough, because it is, but apprehension to it is understood(if not expected). Go out with your bros, blow off some steam, and think about the kind of advice you would give a friend in the same situation(without saying to yourself, "yeah, but this one is different"). Again, if in a month you feel exactly the same, then I will give you $100.
That too was a factor. At first I said we could make it work, but I later realised how dumb that was. I would be stressing out everyday waiting for once every week or every other week visits hoping she wouldnt hookup with someone. Im not the type to cheat so I did tell her this before the breakup and she agreed, I was just hoping to stay together for a couple months longer. It just wasnt meant to happen. Thats what I have planned, lots of going out. Keep the $100 I know plenty of other people will be coming along, and even if they dont I will be over it. Appreciate the offer though .
Ignore her, pretend she doesnt exist, even better have her see you w other chicks But hey youré only 18, Time to move on & get more experience go buy this book THE GAME by Neil Strauss
