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They are more of a virtual deal, it's a state of mind. It's when you tell someone that it is mind over matter...I don't mind because you don't matter kinda deal
There is always something, or someone, better. Bateman: I don't think we should see each other. Evelyn: But your friends are my friends and my friends are your friends. I don't think it would work. You have a little something... Bateman: I know that your friends are my friends and, uh... I thought about that. You can have'em. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- [Just after breaking up] Evelyn: Where are you going? Bateman: I am just leaving. Evelyn: But where? Bateman: I have to return some videotapes.
ok lonely hearts if you are having a hard time with a break-up then you probly already feel like a tool, so here's my advice: get hammered, then nailed.
im going through a really bad break up myself and it SUCKS. worst feeling in the world and you can read all these posts and ask your friends for all the advice in the world, but it doesnt matter because you wont listen to the advice. you know what you want to do and probably what you're going to do, you just want to know what other people think so you know how much of a mistake youre going to make. it sucks to go through this but you just do. im still in the "looking for the right advice" stage. not working. who knows what will happen. But i do have to say, going out with a few of the guys on the board for some fun driving really got my mind off of it. great group of guys, gotta love a challenge stradale with a capristo, sex on wheels. my p car feels like nothing compared, but soon ill step it up. looking forward to this saturday's run as well. probably my only medicine, driving for me makes me forget everything thats going on. But thats not for everyone. but then like a jack off i saw her last night, not good. thought it would help. didnt. in the dumps about it, drinking habbits growing. dont know what will happen next and its pretty much all up in the air. Its out my hands now so if she comes back she does and then ill make a decision, if not, it wasnt meant to be. and its taken me MONTHS and MONTHS to get THIS far, and its not very far at all. another girl isnt going to fill the void, only give a quick fix and probably make you worse. just have to go with it. "Now we gotta make the best of it, improvise, adapt to the environment, Darwin, sh** happens, I Ching, whatever man, we gotta roll with it." -Tom Cruise/ Collateral
yep yep.... breakups are a mofo i remember posting back in Nov. about mine.... EVERYONE told me not to talk to her, etc etc.... i didnt.... ....and then we somehow ran into eachother.... and the next day it was back to the bedroom..... and a week after..... it was finally done, dead, and over and in all honesty once it finally died.... i realized how relieved i was.... yeah there are days where i say, man i wish i had someone.... but those days are far and few.... in reality, when the timing is right.... it'll workout for what its worth.... after the relationship was dead... it gave me i guess motivation to go do things i've always wanted to do.... and its a blast
Trust me, EVERYONE thinks the EXACT same thing when going through this. No exception! But the reality of the situation, even though it never seems like it(and you tell yourself that it's only cliche), is that it simply isn't true. You do end up seeing desireable qualities in other women. Then eventually you see one with so many of them that you can't believe how much of a hard time you were giving yourself. It sounds ridiculous. But it's disgustingly true! Great movie. But trust me, don't let the relationship leave you wondering if anyone is going to notice you sitting on the train. People do notice, so make sure you keep yourself available to considering what seems crazy now; the thought that someone esle could possibly be MUCH better for you.
True happiness is found within yourself, not supplied by external sources meanwhile check out http://www.nomarriage.com & be thankful you arent married Best thing to do when you are down is help people who are worse off than you are or at least think about people with serious problems like cancer, living in Africa, poverty and other horrible things some people have to deal with, and all of a sudden your problems dont seem so bad anymore
Wow what a chilling site.... From nomarriage.com: "Women are, for the most part, not well suited to accept reality or to think logically. they will approach a situation with their mind already made up, then they will twist and manipulate the information to validate what they're already thinking." You mean it WASN'T just my last girlfriend!?! Yikes!
WILLIAM H speaks the truth.... true happiness is really found in oneself.... once you accept that you are a complete person on your own.... then only can you move to grow something with another person.... until you find the truth in yourself.... its going to be a rough trip... cheer up! and keep on going
yes, you guys are all right, but actually going through with the advice is the hard part. so in the mean time, JACK DANIELS BABY!!!! that'll fill the void hahaha
Watch Austin Powers 2, Love the part after Vanessa explodes & Austin says "Wait a tick, I'm SINGLE AGAIN" then starts the musical Classic scene also check out http://www.absolutepowerdating.com He's a friend of mine who has an incredible ability to read people & explain the social matrix
He is friends w DeAngelo, DYD interviewed him Brent is the real deal, his power is intense, seeing him in action will blow your mind
