Do I ask her to marry me?

Same thing.

Every time the oldies station plays "Why do fools fall in love?" I keep thinking, "why would anyone else?".

And if the guy was really "in love" (whatever that means), then he wouldn't need to ask.

Like "Can I afford a car like that?", this is one of those questions where, if you need to ask, the answer is "no".

If you have doubts about marrying her now, imagine how you'll feel after a few years (and after she's put on 50 lbs). If you can't imagine loving her when she can't fit in an SUV, much less a sports car, you're not ready to marry her.

 

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"Just DO it"

 

Just do HER
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Hit it and move on.
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Hi Vette - I looked back at your other posts. The end of November you were looking to buy a diamond engagement ring for your girlfriend of five years. In January you met this hot chick. On April 24th after two or three dates you posted in another thread that you tried to broach the subject of a long distance relationship during a phone call. She shut you down and didn't discuss the subject. Now you are asking if you should ask her to marry you? HELL NO!
A. you are on the rebound from a five year relationship with another chick you wanted to marry.
B. you need time to yourself to get your sh*t together
C. you are just starting your post college life and don't need the extra financial burden
D. what the hell are you thinking? You aren't even in a solid relationship with this chick and you are wanting to have security with her through an engagement. That security can't be bought with a diamond.

Take some time to heal from your five year love and get your career in order and take some time to decide what matters most to you in a life long relationship. Have fun for now and don't rush the process.
Sam

 

Wow.

Good on you, ItalianSpeed, actually doing the homework to honestly be able to advise the guy.

(I'm not being sarcastic - I'm as serious as a heart attack.)

Awesome. Bravo...

 

I'm not the one to ask. I'm horrible at relationships. But I do know that when you know... you know. When you wonder if it is the right time, it might not be. Step back and figure it all out.

(ahh, just read the last post... darnit.. sorry to hear that)

 

Good thing you asked...NO REGRETS!

You've got my mark!!!!

Rock ON!

 

Nice move man. if she really does want it she will come crawling back. So its in her hands now, no skin off ur back. i guess

 

Crawling back? LMAO!
She ain't crawling back, just read these two quotes here:

The only thing this chick is gonna do is she will go out to lunch/dinner with her friends, and talk about "how dumb guys are." Can't blame her though. Then when she finds the next sausage to suck on, after she swallows, she will say "I dated a guy once, who asked me to marry him, AS IF" and then the guy will say, "I know, some guys are so dumb, sometimes."

They will lay in bed, after a nice sex session, and think how dumb some guys are.

 

eh i guess ur right, except why would she hold a conversation during felatio. who does that

 

I said after she swallows.

 

Has it not occured to anyone that this is all made up in the very best Gary Green tradition?

 

well you should already be leaving by then, right

 

yes it has. Some of us (who can read between the lines), know that there is no truth to it.

But its better than boob threads.

 

bingo, thats when you go to your other gf's house

 

I like the boob thread.

 

second that

 

yes very insightful

 

indeed

 

I'm a deep thinker.

 

deeper than the pacific

 

Like the Marianas Trench.

 

yup