Okay..over a couple glasses of wine having friendly disagreement with Wife about something, need your input. Next year friends and we are thinking of a trip to Italy, shipping cars and two weeks driving. I said I would ship the 458 Spider instead of the F12. To which my Wife responded that she woul rather have the coupe because her hair would get messed up in the convertible. To which I said, are you nuts? Driving a convertible Ferrari through Italy it doesn't matter if your hair gets messed..pulling up to a cafe in a 458 Spider and getting out with messy hair is still cool and sexy! To which she said, only guys would say that...women would "understand." So...help me out..please ask your wives, girlfriends, mistresses (and if you are female answer for yourself): Is driving a convertible Ferrari like a 458 Spider through Italy so unbelievably awesome that messy hair is such a distant concern that require to drive a coupe is trivial in comparison? Yes or no? Yes = convertible Ferrari in Italy + messy hair is >>> coupe Ferrari in Italy. No = hair more important.
Remind wife that for special days when appearances are tantamount, that you’d be willing to leave the capote up. Be thankful that you have a wife who takes such care of her appearance. My wife’s a tomboy, which occasionally advantages, but there are many time I wish she was more “girly”. I’ve never owned a convertible, but we own a runabout....I get it, your hair does get dirty quickly.
The number one complaint I get from the GF from riding in the car with the targa off is hair issues. Every ride, every time. You won't win that one.
Just get her a nice ferrari cap to wear. If you have to drive to dinner, leave the top up Sent from my SM-T580 using Tapatalk
How about being sure you can get valid local driving insurance before you get into what may turn out to be an unnecessary argument with your wife over which car to take !
My female accomplice says that for herbaceous be the 458 Spider - especially give the situation you'll have it in. She is VERY aware of her dress code and appearance. As someone mentioned, she can always wear a cap/hat. But when in Italy you must take the Spider. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
With such an easy hard top you could take the spider and just fight over there about putting the roof down or not. Or just leave her here. We go with brimmed hats that tie with scarves. Image Unavailable, Please Login
Asked my wife who I know is not very fond of convertibles and has a Lusso on order. Vacation in Italy? Hell yes, only in a convertible! was her answer.
100% haha. My wife is laughing. Don't worry about the logistics, we can handle that...just a harmless fun question about Spider vs coupe.
I think your wife is aware of something that hasn't been raised. This is ITALY. A country where women are not expected to have a hair out of place even when emerging from the swimming pool at the Villa d'Este. Where every strand of fabric and facet of an accessory in examined, in minute detail, by observers in any highbrow location (and I'm guessing that with that fine choice of cars, you will be going to highbrow locations). Arriving with ruffled hair at the Villa San Michele or rolling up to La Scala looking slightly wind blown is social death. Even if you're alighting at the end of a cypress-lined drive at a villa in rural Tuscany, fellow guests (the females) will expect each other to look like they've just arrived at the Vanity Fair Oscars party. Having imperfect hair in that situation is like arriving at a black tie dinner with a stain on your tuxedo. Unless you're not planning to meet any Italians or don't mind about the above, in which case, Spider all the way. You can always close the roof when you need to. But if you're going beyond the usual rural tourist options, remember, your wife is being judged, minutely, constantly. I'd probably take the Spider and give her the veto over when to shut the roof.
Because that's the way they do things there. Worrying about trivial PC, #WomenActLikeMen type things doesn't bother them. Goditi la vita!! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Kirk...for the sake of the community's education...you need to post a picture so people can truly understand the scene of you driving a Spider! I've driven many miles behind you...and it looks like there is a bush in your car!
I don't have these problems because I shave my head and am not married, but I voted YES just to be on your side.
What scene? Italy? That's what Italy's like. And, yes, I have had a LOT of fun at parties in Italy, as I am sure a lot of us have. Capri, Como, Florence, Milan, Siena.. It's a wonderful country, and looking perfect is part of the game, which shouldn't be a surprise to anyone on a board celebrating the maker of the GTO and the Daytona. Italy pretty much rules the world in terms of style and design, which is probably at the heart of the issue here; you need to look good, and it's fun when you do understand local styles and mores, which demand serious attention to your appearance (and if you've ever bought an item made by an Italian fashion brand, you have bought into this aspiration of outward perfection in lifestyle). Just as, if you're visiting Sand Hill Road on business, you're probably best advised not to dress in a three piece Saville Row suit. Bottom line, though, if you don't mind how you look, you can tour Italy looking like you're going shopping for potatoes at a Walmart. But the OP's wife evidently has a sense of innate style.
There’s a great deal of irony in the use of “trivial” there. No need for the indirect swipe. There is a huge diffeeence between just having style in dress and having style both outwardly in fashion and in personality and comportment. We hold our own just fine making an entrance, but the pompousness described being more important than a giggle and smile on a fun drive doesn’t sound worth it. Going straight to dinner? Top and windows up of course. Stopping for lunch after a spirited drive? Anyone scowling at messed hair would be doing it out of jealousy for the smiles. We’ve never actually run into people as described in our travels. Perhaps we were simply enjoying ourselves too much to notice the sneers.
Image Unavailable, Please Login My sense of "style" is pulling up in a Ferrari at local beach burger place, jump out wearing polo shirt, golf shorts, boat shoes, Patek watch. Though I have been known to wear this...
Related to convertibles... a friend got a convertible last year, but his wife wasn't keen about riding in it with the top down because her hair got messed up. The friend responded, "But dear, you have that 'just ****ed' look - everyone likes that!" His wife was not amused...
No irony. It was in reply to your opinion in your post. There's nothing amiss in doing what Italians do in Italy. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Definitely go for the Spyder! Italians tend to drive aggressively which can be a good environment for sports car driving. But interestingly, in my years driving over there, I've only encountered Ferraris around their Maranello musuem since there are car rental shops just outside the museum.
Some women can rock the headscarf Image Unavailable, Please Login Image Unavailable, Please Login Image Unavailable, Please Login Of course Christy didn't bother in Vacation Image Unavailable, Please Login