I have two Ferraris, and I have a 19 year old girlfriend. She promises its not for the cars, money, house, etc, so I suggest, go 19, not the 20-38 lake chaps
The most important thing you can do is to find someone that is compatible with your outlook on life and shares common beliefs. Looks come and go, or can be upgraded with modern science if that is what you are after ;-) (not for me though) If someone is hot but you have nothing in common, this will be an empty and probably short lived relationship. Because after awhile you need to be able to hold a conversation, decide on priorities, raise children, etc. I've been married for over 8 years and whenever we have a fight or I get pissed off, I also consider how many things we actually agree on and how we help each other. Our families all get along, she loves my folks (and vice versa) and she tolerates my quest to find a Ferrari, even went with me to Philly to see a car on our anniversary! Definately not a gold digger, we both had a life, job, and bank accounts before we met. Money was never the topic, probably because we both have worked for it our entire lives.
It was tongue in cheek guys - Im only 38 and I had a major heart attack last year and nearly died, so from then on, my attitude is - take advantage of what life gives you - I aint married the girl or signed to support her. If she is a gold-digger, Im having soooo much fun with her the the odd hot friend (shes 19, blonde, and fit as f***), and if she proves to be a keeper, great..... but I wont lose sleep over it. Who really gives a damn whether someone like that is after a ride in the car - give her that ride!!!!! hahahahahahahaha
Your 38, had a heart attack, she's 19......and you won't lose sleep over it . You are my hero! --Mike
If you are award with women, shy, scared, overly cocky a Ferrari wont help especially with the hotties . But if you are are already good and could get laid driving a Yugo a Ferrari is an additional thing that makes you unique and more desireable depending how you act. There was a guy at the Lambo dealership restaurant on the strip trying to hit on this gorgeous blond bartender saying he was gonna buy the orange gallardo there acting all arrogant she told him she prefers Ferraris instead, he looked like someone just kicked him in the nuts after that too funny, I told her she's got points then got her number no joke.
I'm glad you are enjoying life and survived your heart attack, but 38 with a 19 year old is just flat out creepy IMO - I'm sure you have tons in common and it's not about the money!
The only guy I know that is anywhere near you, lives right by Neutral Bay down in Sydney. Great guy and a very good friend! There's a dealbreaker though. 2 young kids and happily married to a lovely Kiwi he met in London. Bugger!
Right after new years I had a cold and was feeling really weak so I went to a walk in clinic and my heart was at 120bpm. They hooked me up and the doctor said that I was on my way to a heart attack. From there I was taken to the hospital and after the whole day in there they figured my EKG is just that way and I was let go. I did a few check ups and the cardiologist says that my EKG comes out a little different but thats just the way I am and there's nothing to worry about. After those events which weren't as scary as yours I came to also change the view I have on life, not to mention that I was almost killed by a drunken girl in a car a few years ago. Anyway I'll be 38 this coming 20th of april and me too go for young girls, my last one was 20 this past four months and she is available anytime I feel like it. I don't lose any sleep over women, they are just here for me to have some fun.
Not to hijack-- saw a friend on a Friday-- 27 years old, healthy-- had lunch, BSed, great time, etc. Monday, he was dead of a coronary, in his sleep... the end. No previous history, etc. Live life. Now.
It's clear any rich boy toy jerk male only has eyes for a 20 yo blonde Penthouse pretender w/ no brain, triple D breasts & a porno CV. A local collage MBA is not even considered, nor is any entrepreneur even w/ Harvard schooling as she might be smarter than you. If you limit yourself to the young dingy blond things go ahead & FYBO but be prepared to embarrass yourself in the morning when you wake up & realize your stupidity. Grow up already or screw your self & forget love.
I like smart women, much better if smarter than me, prefer a women with presence, class, well mannered, respectful, loyal, strong. Don't want her romantic but erotic , perverted, a dark humor type, sarcastic, witty. I prefer european looking girls and have a thing for British, Eastern European, Norwegian, Basque girls or any other girl with pale skin and an accent. I'm over the drama with Spanish and Italian girls, the latin tempered and I collide way to often, hmmm, I still make room for a French or a Romanian. I have dated of many ages and different countries, but never older than me, also married three times with the same outcome of failure. I was always respectful, loyal and gave them all I could afford and some more. We were compatible and thought that I divorce was never going to happen, but every single one of them failed me and they have told so to friends and relatives. I'm still friends with them all and even was invited to the later weddings and they have called me to see if I approve of their relationships. Clearly they know that I wasn't the one at fault for the divorces. I just find myself running into young girls and it isn't that I go looking for them. I don't have the motivation to seek another long term relationship and consider that a little unnatural to our natural instincts, but I'm sort of secretive or a little to myself. I find myself meeting girls and thinking maybe this time around, but then I feel like my effort wont be reciprocated. The day I meet a girl like the one in my first paragraph then I'll consider going a little further, but not marriage.