Or after he gave her the blowjob, blowjob, blowjob envelopes!!!!
No no no no no no no no Ferraris, flash dinners or shopping sprees on the first date. Let me tell ya, I'm 26 and although I've got a great girl at present, before I met her I could read the good ones from the bad ones like a book. For instance, I made the huge mistake of taking my 308 out on a first date two times; the first time the girl was asking me to buy her a $700 pair of friggin' shoes by the end of the date and the second time the girl brought another guy friend of hers over to my place and spent more time showing him my Ferrari and other cars than she spent talking to me. Needless to say, my foot was up both their a$$es, lickety-split. Now, the girl I'm with right now is most definitely a good 'un. She doesn't give two $hits about riding in a Ferrari versus a "normal car" (of course, she 'likes' the F-car but it doesn't really matter to her), she's college-educated, a very deep thinker and really and truly appreciates it when kindness or affection is shown towards her...and best of all? She's beautiful!! I've decided that the single most important trait in a girl (at least for me) is her education. I've been with some incredibly hot, bodies to die for chicks who were dumber than a rock, and while they might make nice "play things", it ultimately is a bad decision to roll with them for the long run. A girl who's educated can at least prove her ability to think for herself and more likely than not, she has a strong aire of independence, which is also a good trait in a girl...clingy ones suck. I think on our first date we went to a local bar/cafe for some grub then went to a couple parties around campus where we could get a little oiled up and have some fun and cavort. I think we played beer pong as a team and kicked some ass for a while and then eventually made our way back to my house (which I shared with 13 other guys - the rugby house), partied some more then hit the sack. Before the second date, I talked to some of her friends and found out she loved STP (that's Stone Temple Pilots for you old farts), so I took her to their concert the following weekend. All in all, it seemed to do the trick. Find a girl that likes to party and is friendly but also has smarts and wit to match. Good luck my friend! Cheers, Aaron '82 GTSi P.S. On our first date, we took my Triumph TR6 which was my college wheels. Girls usually would dig a guy with a vintage sports car over some d0uchebag with a 3000GT or Type R Civic. So if you happen to own a British sports car, definitely recommended for date #1!!
Which is why its a good thing to see how they react to a Ferrari on the first few dates as well, that sweet innocent respectful girl that you take out in your normal car could act totally different with a Ferrari as well asking to borrow $$ or buy her things when they find out you have one. This way you find out what they are really like, yes BTDT concerning girls that think men with Ferraris are walking ATM machines. I'll tell them I am not driving my Ferrari to impress them just I haven't driven it for awhile and wanted to, bringing the car makes the night even more fun especially all the guys in other vehicles reactions with their eyes popping out of their heads and tongues hanging out to the hot "Ferrari b1tch" riding in my car.
That is a valid point, however it seems that if you use the Ferrari on the first date, while she might not immediately show it, she could be thinking to herself that she's bagged a wealthy one and later on down the line, that ugliness could rear its head. For instance, if you were to get serious with her even though she still might not show her possible materialism, she might have this inkling that she can always ask you for money, or mooch off of you, etc..and I've had that happen to me. I dated a girl who's parents were absolutely loaded, her father was the retired VP of a large, worldwide company here in Cincinnati, they had everything you could ask for, a huge house, pool, hot tub, nice cars...but all the while their daughter made no efforts to get herself a job because she was with me and figured "oh, he's got a Ferrari and a Jaguar and a Range Rover.....I don't need to make money for myself.." And I'll say that I got sick of that real quick. The benefits of perhaps marrying a girl who's family was loaded didn't outweigh the fact that she had no motivation or ambition. 9 years from now, her trust fund will open up and she'll be set for life, but I had a feeling that until that happens, I'd be the one supporting her. And all this time, she never demanded to go out for an expensive dinner, or go on an expensive vacation or any of that, but I just knew what she was thinking...And that's the type of trap you can get yourself into if you show off to a girl. Ha, I was about to buy a Buick Century and hide all of my nice cars and tell her one day that I sold my business and that we'd have to rough it for a while. See how she reacted to that one Cheers, Aaron '82 GTSi
well, we had dinner, went bowling, then she decided she wanted to see my room. we came back to my house, where i learned she enjoys pool, so we wound up having a couple of beverages and playing a few games. we're going to be meeting up again in st louis this coming weekend, i'm looking forward to it. thanks for the input guys!
yeah sure. You're a guy. When stuff happens, you tell the world. When stuff doesn't happen, you tell the world something did happen.
it's amazing how much easier being 21 makes coming up with what to do...i just had my first ever blind date, we met at a local bar, it went pretty well
none from last night, if we get back together maybe then, hindsight 20-20, i shouldn't have bumped the thread knowing this would happen,
I disagree w/ all you guys that said "no flowers". A half doz yellow (not red!) roses is a great start. It makes a statement you are a gentleman, somewhat traditional, respect her, & buy gifts. Your dress will be 1st impression so take it up a notch & never go too casual. Wear something that accentuates your hunky body if your have one but has class. If you are a dork, stay w/ something neat & clean w/ personality. I love to go to the newest, hot movies & diner to discuss after but if you want a nontraditional date try: going to her buds hang outs & impress her work partners & friends w/ your good looks, stellar competence in what ever you do, class & willingness to easily be the man of her dreams. You will be tripping over their tongues.
not a bad choice. I was at the patio at Growler's (Sunset Hills) last night, place was crawling with hot chicks, fair number of couples too.
No point in playing the "finding the real me" game after a few weeks of uncertainty. waste of time for both. Most important thing is to be genuine 95% of the time.. The 5% remaining is for when you have to keep a conversation going by listening to things which dont interest you.. If you are genuine 95%, then you will both know the potential level of the relationship by the end of the date. Every minute you try and impress her, is a minute of your time being wasted - in the beginning things have to be real - once something is established and you are happy with each other, the relationship games begin... Hope all goes well..
