My wife and I are looking for a very nice hotel with luxury suites right on the ocean. The 3 nicest hotels seem to be the Ritz, Fairmont, and Four Seasons. They all look amazing but they are set pretty far back from the water and don't seem to offer the privacy we are looking for. For example, private patio with seating area and pool or hot tub. We would also like to avoid a place that is popular with people with young kids. Suggestions and insights would be greatly appreciated. We aren't set on Maui, we picked it because this is our first trip and it looks like we could spend a week there and have plenty to do.