how do you move on

frist off i dont want any bs,it really does hurt me and i know there are a good number of older members so maybe some one can help.


soon we will be going off to school and it has been three years. i dont know how to live with out her she is pretty much the only person i talk to. it hurts being so in love with someone and them not feeling the same way. i do not want anyone put her but then when i tell her that it makes her feel bad that then makes me feel worse again.it like we should be friends forever but i dont know when i will get over her so it will hurt to much. im sorry it is our 3 year and we have 15 days(does not make it better that two months ago "we" picked a day. how can i get over her when i am scared to be aloan.

 

she got me this today http://www.supercarfreak.net/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=772

 

Dude, you're going off to college... you'll be over her reeeeal quick

Anyway, you do need to come to grips with yourself. Being alone is not a bad thing. Learn to enjoy being alone.. both in the sense of not having a gf, and in the true sense of not being around anyone you know. Go out and do things by yourself.. catch a movie, grab some dinner at a restaurant, just kick back and watch people. Be comfortable with yourself. If you're not comfortable with yourself, no one else will be comfortable with you.

-R

 

thanks. i like the last part i am working on that

 

Yeah, don't worry. I mean, I know this girl who had been dating a guy for a few years and just changed schools before we met and then got married.

Oh wait, this doesn't help you much does it.

 

If you don't get over her real quick, you will kick yourself in the ass later! You will miss out man!

Sorry, these things don't last. You made a good decision. Don't be dependent upon others, and if you need cheering up, go visit EMO/goth sites. Those are always cheery, pick me up, inspiring groups of people.

 

Robin is absolutely right, get to know yourself! The opportunities to spend time alone and become comfortable with yourself will become limited as you get older. Look at this as an opportunity.

I'll agree it does suck to have someone not feel the same about you as you do about them, but that is life. The only solace I can offer is that most likely you'll look back on these events years from now and smile thinking about your feelings now. Study hard, try things your afraid to try, push yourself mentally and physically, this is an exciting time in your life and it shouldn't be spent in heartache.

 

Could you rephrase that?

I think I understand the interesting choice of pictures to give, single-seater and all.

You'll be over her in 5 minutes once you get a nod and a wink. Remember, a High School Girlfriend is just that, just as ol' what's-her-name was in Kindergarten. Post-H.S. is time for one and all to get their ya-yas out, and that is exactly why a significant number of people go to College.

 

Where are ypu going to college & how old are you both ?

There will be tons of girls at college, Make the best of it as its the best place you will ever find to meet women.

Dont pass that up bcus you are depressed about the 1 who couldnt make up her mind

 

I was in the same position once wiht a young lassy.

You'll be a different person when you leave college then when you enter.

I did check in on her once. She's not made much of herself since then.

Now I am deeply in love with a foxy librarian.

Worry about getting good grades. Much more important. Esspecially the easy first two years.

 

You on a desert island: You will be alone
You in college: You will NOT be alone!

If it was meant to be, it will. Some how, some way. It will be a test to make sure that she is 'the one'. You are in school to focus on where you will be in five to ten years, not to be in a funk with your mind all screwed up.

 

Those were actually carefully chosen words. Didn't expect anyone to pick up on it though

One more piece of sage advice for the young lad (with no puns this time)... Don't be depressed about past experiences. Instead, be happy that you had the experience at all. Add the memories of this girl to your stash of 'happy thoughts' along with all the other good things you've seen and done in life. A big resevoir of these kinds of memories will serve you and others around you in many ways over the years...

-R

 

Good advice so far...spot on...

Every love lives in a piece of your heart..think of that little part as always being hers..but you still have ALL THE REST to use and give away again!

Never close the door...a sweetie I chased all thru High School but never caught went on thru life, and twenty years later realized maybe she had overlooked something...She had!


That little piece of my heart was still hers......still is......

 

I'll bet you a hundred bucks you will be just fine after two months in school!