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  1. Ed P.

    Ed P. Formula 3

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    I KNEW it!!
     
  2. titanium360

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    well i will throw in my $0.02 . i believe that F-chat is an awsome awsome site and it will be very hard to duplicate or immitate and if it can be done it will take time.

    but on the other hand there are too many wanabees and trols that are ruining it for other f-chat members . i will never forget my friend with the four enzo's for sale!

    I think Brad has gone a step ahead and created a site just for his buddies and the EC crew and not so much to replace it with F-chat. we all love sharing our experiences and our passion and it is a shame that a few people are destroying the fun for everyone.

    BY THE WAY I HAVE THREE ENZO'S AND FOUR F430'S FOR SALE! ANY TAKERS.
     
  3. ghost

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    Brad -

    I'm a little surprised at all of this, and frankly a bit disappointed.

    I'm surprised because you've questioned our support for you. We (EC collectively, and me, personally) have ALWAYS supported you in the past. Your artistic endeavors, the FerrariChat forum, the runs, the get-togethers - whatever! - has always been a something that the gang has always celebrated and encouraged. Recall this support has held strong even during periods when there has been tremendous controversy between you and various members of the FerrariChat community. Support stems from a sense of kinship with a person. Kinship, in turn, comes from sharing commonalities with an individual and liking them for who they are, and what they represent. Both are built over time.

    We've had a long history of supporting each other - yet that gets immediately questioned (and thrown out the door) because we didn't register?? You are very artistic, and produce an incredible amount of solid material. You'll agree that much of this is produced for kicks and self-pleasure. At times, it's hard (at least for me) to differentiate between what you're doing as simply a creative outlet, and what you find important and want us to show visible support for. I thought the side was great - we all did. But there was a lot of "sukka / nukka / let it all out / no holds barred" stuff going on. I don't participate in bashing here, nor did I want to on your site - even it was all in fun. For this reason I thought I'd be an observer till that died. If you wanted us to register on day one, all you had to do was ask. If you were hurt that we didn't, all you had to do was let us know. You didn't ask. You didn't let us know.

    Personally, I don't agree that the mere act of registering shows support. Somebody that registers, and only posts once or twice is no different IMO than somebody that continues to browse without registering. But if registering is what you wanted, I wish it would have been made clearer.

    Think of the flip side: I could have taken offense that I wasn't offered a Moderator position on your board. Or that I'm not a 7-skull Blood Member. But I don't. Why? Because (i) I know that is all in good fun, (ii) I know you HAVE supported me in the past, and (iii) I realize that you WILL support me when it matters most. I urge you to also think about the situation this way, rather than drawing hasty conclusions. I think our friendship deserves a little more respect than that.

    I am disappointed because your joke of getting us to register was in poor taste. I don't think I've changed my mind on that front, nor have others that I've spoken with. My view - as I elucidated earlier - is that friendships are made bit by bit and, whether we like it or not, are either validated or weakened based on specific incidents. Unfortunately, the accusations and mis-truths relating to this incident have worked towards detracting from our friendship. But we can always look towards the future. And I look forward to that. For now, though, ghost is staying outside the "inside." At least till the sour taste in my mouth goes away.

    I love you all.

    EC4LIFE.
     
  4. ClydeM

    ClydeM F1 World Champ
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    can someone elucidate what elucidate means? ;)
    Looks like a great big group hug at the Xmas party :)
     
  5. THonda

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    Can't Help it being the smart ass I am :D :D Got to Reg First for that to happen ZEN! :D
     
  6. sjmst

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    Brad's site is so nice, I registered twice. SJMST and his evil alter ego, Pvt. Joker.
     
  7. sjmst

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    BS, you knew it; you said he was pchop.
     
  8. sjmst

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    I will make that clear when I see you.

    Ahh, sure..make that at ROB's party.


    My $.04 (inflation). Let’s take a look at the EC f chat crew:

    1) I submit that these are facts:

    History:
    The group started as about 7-8 people getting together for runs in March 04
    Others joined in, and by summer 04, the “core” group numbered about 20
    People post invitations to join events on fchat---
    Events and major postings include, but are not limited to: “let’s grab a drink tonight”
    “Party at ___’s house Saturday” “ROE” www.gothamdreeamcars.com “what did Emil have for lunch” “Pchop got his car” “Party at ____ club” www.gothamdreeamcars.com.
    Etc etc.

    Demographics:
    All car enthusiasts
    Most driven (pun intended) personalities
    Most are accustomed to being in charge and taking control
    Not all drive Ferraris
    Most display a lack of arrogance and are accepting of all who are interested in participating
    Most are very busy



    2) These are opinion:

    A little friction and disagreement now and then in such a group is normal
    Considering the strong personalities, there have been amazingly few problems
    www.gothamdreeamcars.com is a great place to rent an exotic
    People here take the time and effort to address issues of concern head on, and make the group better and stronger for it (e.g., Hubert’s “Pay to play” thread)
    www.gothamdreeamcars.com is a great place to rent an exotic
    Mondial is the best value in Ferrari


    These thoughts provided solely for what they are worth.
     
  9. tuttebenne

    tuttebenne F1 Rookie

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    Clyde, I don't believe it was spelt correctly. The word is lucidate. Something Desi Arnaz used to beg for... ;)
     
  10. Buttuz4eva

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    You need to get off of that stick you have been sitting on bro. lighten up
    if i recall the whole EC shiit was started by this threadhttp://ferrarichat.com/forum/showthread.php?t=21606&page=1&pp=20
    was it not? if i remember corectlyyou did not change your whole out look and join in on the whole ec thing until this threadhttp://ferrarichat.com/forum/showthread.php?t=30524
    thats 3 months until you decided to lighten up a little and join in on the fun
    you wouldnt even throw a EC up on your avatar because you thought it was to immature to do so.But as soon as everyone thought it was ok and you were the odd man out you decided hey maybe i can join in on the fun now maby its ok to act 15 instead of 50.

    Now about artistic ? i dont care if your into what i do or not? I dont know why you had to bring that up? Supporting my artistic ability? A artist so to speak does things to express the way they feel and dont care about doing things if people dont like them. Like i said before i make videos for myself and share them with friends if they want a copy i will gladly provide them with one. I dont plan on going public with a video i dont care about that shiit! If this is what your talking about as far as being artistic? I do these things for friends and yes your right about self gratifacation i could care less if any of you dont like them. I made them for me and whoever is interested in them.
    I did not make inside the ec for a artistic stand point infact mike lussos deserves all the credit for that i just told him what i wanted and he delivered.
    Ididnt make the site for you to come in and say WOW he is so artistic.
    I made the site so we could possibly disscuss personal things that you dont want the rest of the public to know about. I am about suclusion and to not worry about if some fool is going to want to race me down the highway and possibly kill me on acount of this person reading the exact location where we are meeting and such. Call me parinoid but i know it can happen.
    So i say i do none of this for visable support of being a artist.

    As far as sukka nukka crap there is one thread that huebert wanted to get his anger out in and if you read that thread i dont even particapate in it?

    As far as making you a moderator you showed you were not interested why should i make you a moderator?

    As far as horse blood member or how many skulls you have You are a instant horseblood member but the site does not know that automaticly so i have to do it once you sign up wich i did for you, mike and eric as soon as i saw you up in there.

    I dont particapte in bashing either i may throw some chinese jokes out here and there but i do it to there faces so it all good.

    You say all i had to do was ask?
    Well i made a thread that said secret section? thats asking is it not if the secret section brings you to a link that brings you to a forum i would say that is asking. I did this because i did not want the public to know Thus meaning secret?

    my joke was funny to many maybe not you or some others but to the inside the EC krew it was very funny. People dont laugh when they are at the but end of the joke i am not suprized you didnt think it was funny........

    Vik i support you and you are a fellow EC brother even though that sounded like some gay asss fraternity line but are you sure your not a lawyer?
     
  11. ClydeM

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    OUCH!

    Snuck that one in there, huh?
     
  12. sjmst

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    Low blow!!
     
  13. W00dEar

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    LMFAO, how true.
     
  14. Greg G

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    ffwerff!!!

    Since we're all pouring our hearts out...

    Let me just say how much I love F chat too. Each and every one of you have always made me feel welcome, even when I thought I didnt belong. I may not roll an exotic ride or fit the playa persona, but the passion runs deep. I relish every EC event I get to. I grew up addicted to cars. As a 7 year old, I remember walking around the house with a '76 280Z brochure like it was my security blanket or favorite toy to me. As I matured, so did my tastes in fine cars. So here I am.

    That said, I hate to see the group divided by these issues. I too, have been fedup with the amount of BS bandwidth the NY forum has been experiencing lately. Some of you know Im dealing with some serious **** with my son, so time is always precious to me. I dont always have the luxury to browse multiple forums, but that dsnt mean I am against them. We have several talented people here with forums like KennyH's ExoticCarForums and Rob's Beyond the Quarter Mile along with Brad's InsideEC. I fully support them even though I dont visit them often. Lets not make that a measurement of "EC" status and acceptance. I was totally flattered when I saw that Brad had included me as a blood member even before I registered at his site, but I also dont think that Eric and Vik shld have to defend their positions in my eyes. I think Im starting to ramble. Bottom line... lets not get too carried away with who frequents whos forum.

    **** it... lets just go for a drive!!!

    {insert group hug here}

    Peace!
     
  15. ghost

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    Brad, you're wandering around here. I don't have the time to respond to this in detail. Bottom line(s):

    - I'd never engage in a joke that you or other EC Brothers were made the Butt(uz) of, but I'm glad you had some yuks at our expense.
    - Your characterizations of me joining "ec" are off-base, but it's not worth arguing over. In fact, I'm not even sure why it's brought up?
    - You completely misinterpreted my point on your artistry, but so be it.
    - Look back over the long-term and you'll find nothing but inclusiveness and support.
    - The site looked great, and I'm sure you'll have fun with it.
    - Lawyer? Now you're really asking for trouble... ;-)
     
  16. sjmst

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    ANOTHER low blow
     
  17. THonda

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    What are they trying to say? All laywers are scum? :D
     
  18. ghost

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    Great points Greg:

    Way too much!

    Eric's and my point exactly. Yet it was made to seem that our lack of registering means a lack of support. :confused:

    Couldn't have said it better myself. :)
     
  19. SENNA1

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    just out of curiosity.. did u guys ever wonder why new members like myself rarely ever post... i have nothin to lie about.. bever have and never will.. i know some people on this board and love f cars. and all some of u do is try to prove to other people that you are smarter than them.. ( not sayin all but some))
     
  20. Buttuz4eva

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    its not about frequent visits?
     
  21. titanium360

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    sh-t, i am getting a headach reading all these lenghty posts. need to go for a drive. anyone?
     
  22. Buttuz4eva

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    i will aswer your qustions

    -thats a lie you never said kieths viper was slow??
    -you have no better debating skills then that?
    i understood completely you were flatering me i dont care for flatery or complements.
    -we are not talking about support on fchat we all know you have 8,000 posts you make that clear everytime you hit another 1,000. "YOUR THE MAN NOW DOG"
    -I speak my mind
     
  23. Buttuz4eva

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    i think we all know he is not talking about me. right?
     
  24. SENNA1

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    u take everything so serious.. u gotta relax man.. WOOOO SAAAAA WOOOO SAAAAAA
     
  25. W00dEar

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    vik ur taking this too seriously.
    brad made a site, for certain ppl of fchat(the ones who met and did thing together, the so called EC), he even list the user names of EC ppl(ur name is in it). whats wrong with registering the site?? its not asking u to abandon fchat, its not asking u to participate often, and i do believe the ONE bashing thread(vs. keith round 3) was created after a day or two after some already registered, and please do not even tell me you dont think fchat has way more BS and bashing than brad's site.

    anyway, for those who know me, they know i hate to sugarcoat when i speak, so i will say exactly how i feel. the way i see it, you dont really want to associate with the "thugs of EC" on brad's forum, it prolly bring down ur image on the holly fchat, dats why u wanted to have nothing to do with it.

    now please note, i am just stating opinion frankly, there is no right or wrong to this issue. people choose what they want to do, simple as that. brad only simply made a pt that he thought the "EC hommies" will at least registered his site, and i think that is a 100% valid pt.
     

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