May-December Relationships

Well, when I was young I had something of a relationship like that.

When I was 16, I met, and eventually fell in love with a 78 year old lady.

I know what you're thinking, but it wasn't like that at all.

Up to that time I was a very moody teen, dwelling constantly on death, even faking my own death to shock my parents.

But after I met her, I learned how to live! Boy, did she know how to live.

She was so eccentric, even lived in an old caboose!

Yeah, I'd say a May- December relationship can work, it certainly did for me.

 

Zophie???

RMX

 

let me get this straight...you're asking for advice on how to cheat on your wife?

 

Exactly what I was thinking...

So you want to date this lady while married?

 

What was the name of this movie?

 

I would just like to say that you are the man!

Any tips for how to get my gf to be ok with me cheating on her..I mean with an open relationship???

 

Let her go first.

 

LOL.. maybe not then..

 

Ok.

If you are emotionally bonded to your wife and do not see ending that relationship, why would you want to get emotionally bonded to the other woman?

THAT I think would be breaking the spirit of the open relationship with your wife, would it not?

Open relationships are usually just about allowing physical attraction ($ex) with others, NOT allowing serious emotional relationships to develop.

Aren't you going outta bounds (your and your wife's "open" agreement ) on this one ........................... and thus "cheating?"

Help me here. I actually want to understand (not criticize).

 

Sorry. You did not answer the question so I cannot give ANYthing back worth a damn.

 

With this comment Steve, I think you posted in the wrong forum.

Ferrari is about cars.


If you want pu$$ies, go to the Lambo Chat section. It is full of inverted penises with gold chains that squat when they pee. Stats show that 50% put the sock in the correct side of their pants.



Now, shall we get back on-track ?

 

That is a tough one. A generation is a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time in real terms.

You are going to have to RETROGRADE and go back in time to re-live things, some of which you'd rather not, and she is going to have to excelerate her learning (aging) curve perhaps faster than she would like, to make it work.

I have friends with that "problem" and they are married. I see it ending badly (them) as neither want to bend to close the gap. When they are 70 and 90 it probably will not matter ............ but my money says they will never make it that far. And then you add your dynamic and ...........

Just enjoy the time together your wife graciously has provided ...................... and remain true to her and your agreement.

 

I have a buddy who is 58 who is dating a 26 yr. old. They are both married to someone else. Last week he gave up on his wife and moved out and now the gf did the same and they want to be together. I just don't see how this much difference can work for 3 to 6 years.

 

Are you pissed about something? The guy is free to live his life as he sees fit. He is in the off topic section and not in the car section and while we all have differing views of this situation, he is asking a simple question. The complex nature of his marriage is apparent.

 

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No.

I have issue with the way he asked in that post, not what he asked.

Please read my posts again.

I am not judging and am actually interested-- in learning and helping (if I can).

 

That's pretty twisted.

 

hmm...this thread is a bit odd.