MY APOLOGY TO SAM, OUR MODERATOR

So you are saying you indeed WERE trying to start trouble with us.

 

That's interesting.

Because, as I recall, we were having good peaceful time here over the holiday weekend, weather was beautiful, we all went driving, EC or NYTS, all having a good time.
Then I posted about our runs, and I was attacked by someone. Then you started a thread with my name in it calling ppl out.... shiet hit the fan from there ...

Sort of confused, as how this would be getting back my own medicine.

 

Sam,

You are doing a hard job. We do appreciate it even though sometimes it does go unrewarded. Locking threads though sometimes doesn't help the problem but makes them grow since there is no outlet.

 

1) nice way to change subject when you had no response to my point.
2) you somehow included my name in your post, so i feel involved.
3) if this is truly ONLY for Sam, PM him, why post in public, do you just need the attention?

 

does this mean that woodear can't come to your party?

 

All this back-and-forth, he-said-this, no-I-didn't crap is going nowhere fast. In the interest of resolving this dispute I suggest that the waring factions PM each other their phone #'s and talk this shyt out.

An internet message board is the worst place to have a heated discussion like this. It takes forever and too much is misinterperited. The way it sounds in your head and your intended message and the way it is read and interperited by sombody else can be completely different.

I've seen this before. 5 minutes on the phone will do wonders for the situation. Even if you just agree to ignore each other and not type one more word about each other, it's progress.

Or you can just get together and beat the mortal shyt out of each other. Whatever.

 

Good idea. I'm up what about you Chris or Hubbie

 

Up for what?

Phone call? Not interested.
As I have always said, anyone takes things on internet seriously, need help. I am not bothered by all this, I do not need to vent it on the phone to get it out of my system.
Further more, we will never see it eye to eye anyway, no need to waste time. We just have to understand and accept people are different, let them be how they want to be, simple as that.

Now if you are ever in my area and want to meet in person, just let me know when. InsidetheEC has events every week, you are welcomed to join us.

 

That's pretty close minded isn't it? That's fine. And by the way it doesn't bother me at all either it is just too bad you can't take some constructive comments.

I will be out your way in Aug

 

No, that is not being closed minded.
It's just not my personality to associate with strangers on the phone.

 

Easy way out Chris.

 

Not trying to find a way out.
English is not my 1st lauguage, and I am not great in verbal communicating in a situation of carrying a debate/arguments with a stranger.
When I write, I can think before I write. That's the difference.

If you insist the counts as narrow minded, or I am scared and wanting to find my way out. So be it.

I will remember your August visit.

 

I know almost all of you. If you talked off line or in person all this BS would be over in 2 minutes.

 

That is just what I'm trying to do.

I tried I can say that.

 

As far as i'm concerned, this issue should NEVER come up on here again... It's quickly diffused and the discussion is ended on InsideTheEC because they think it makes their community look bad... Buuuuuuut, they have no problem doing it here... Says a lot... i'm done with this, i won't contribute anymore to this one-side community dumping... No one else should, either... It's apparently what they want.

 

Adding to my post... If anyone, EC or otherwise, has something to say to me, you can do it directly, via email, [email protected]... Or you can post here and we'll know it's really all about trouble and attention...

 

your e-mail does not work! no just kidding, sam my hats off to you. and bruce when is the pool party for the ec crew?

 

The weekend right after he drains it...


...sorry, i couldn't help it...!

 

i have to admit that was a good one but who's going in first? bruce by the way i am busy that weekend.