Normal Marriage & Getting Laid

Here are my thoughts:

1) Before marriage - GF does everything, everywhere. Doesn't matter if she is tired/showered/hasn't slept in days... I am also tending to her every need - going to nice dinners, etc...

2) IMMEDIATELY after we get married...it drops off. Now she has to be rested, in the mood, at the right time. Various "activities" are no longer performed, or only on special occasions....

3) Then we have kids. She is fatigued all of the time. We spend more time arguing than anything else (we had twins, and then another almost right after). We are too tired to care... We try to argue our way into sex... It works about as well as you would expect...

4) Kids now older...sex is great.

I think marriage sex is definitely different than pre-marital sex...for both parties. I think the stress of working and kids, definitely tempers the activity...

The nice thing about marriage is that you figure out EXACTLY what the other person wants/needs, and you can give it to them. I love reading posts on here about guys and their 14 hour lovemaking sessions... . I am lucky if my kids allow a tiny fraction of that...

 

You know I once told a freind of mine that Ive been pounding the same meat for 15 yrs now and its getting old. He replied says , shes been getting pounded by the same meat and probably finds it equally boring.

Made so much sense that decided to find a 27 yr old on the side. Just makes life so much happier.

 

mikey mikey mikey. i do know for fact that after marriage sexual activity does decline but not for all couples, but most. i have been with my wife for 14 yrs, i personally still look at her and think she is hot. as you know a mans sexual desires go down hill after age 18 [ this totally blows !!!] and a womans peeks in the 30's [ according to text books ]. my wife has never turned me down for sex except if she is honest to god ill. she could go every day if i so desired but my desire has deminished [ also blows ].. i would say as of now we average about 3 x per week. if we are away on vacation its 5-6 x through the coarse of the week. i think alot has to do with stress levels.
i hope this helps you in your answer. and since you requested i will honor your wishes by not posting some hot piece ass with beautiful cans [ fake ].
ps. yes im happy with the amount of sex i receive
pms.. mikey, your wife is presently pregnant with little mikey, after so many months i believe the expecting mothers labido does drop off a bit. after birth --- WATCH OUT !!!!! i bet she will rape your kangaroo ass repeatedly.....

 

wow, makes me want to puke

 

Your sick !!

 

what why ??????

 

Ok Mike...your turn, and since you started it. Whats going on on your end???

As an aside...for some reason my wife's sex drive totally plummeted when she started birth control. After she got off it, it recovered...thank God...

Anyone else notice that?

 

Its like eating steak all the time.....Dont you want a burger every once in awhile ?

 

After we had kids, she got tied....best route.

 

he isn't gay you know

 

How did you come up with that ??

Did I studder in my post ?

 

i honestly have no idea. im just really random right now

 

absolutley !!!!!!!! i crave a cheap piece of meat [ burger ] every now and then.
now you guys will get sick --------- but i know where my heart is and its with my wife which i believe is my soul mate. unless she screws me over, then its a whole new ball game.

 

LMAO !!

 

Couldnt agree with you more.

But the question was related to sex....marriage.

Banging, and Love making are two different things, thats what I was trying to get at. When a guy wants sex, wife might not be up to the task.

 

Well, what classifies a normal marriage?

 

ooooops. my wife , i can i honestly say is up for either. yes there is love making and thens there hard core sex. yes, she does both [ with me ] just wanted to clarify that.

 

john cheats on his wife with his hand.....and gus....

 

excellent point !!!!!! i guess if both parties are truly happy then that would be perfect in there eyes.

 

Bad visual Noah.....But Im sure John has a condo somewhere with some buddies with some lovely ladies somewhere for those midnight snacks.

 

your all bad bad bad people

 

what does that make you? satan?

 

10 years of marriage and we are still humping like rabbits. probably more now than before marriage. I'm sure as hell not complaining.

It's much harder (no pun) to find time when you have kids. but not impossiable. you just have to be more creative. thats the fun part.

maybe 4+ times a week.