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  1. KarmaBytes

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    #1 KarmaBytes, Jul 28, 2010
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    Ok...need some advice. I have been dating an older man for a few years now and our relations were awesome in the beginning but over time like many relationships the relations have lessened. My question is what is wrong with the relationship when she wants to relations and he basically ignores her advances? Is he cheating? Not interested?
     
  2. wax

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    He and he are tired.
     
  3. KarmaBytes

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    I would understand if I was asking for the relations more than once a day but I am just asking for it period. I am talking like maybe twice a week...once initiated by him and once initiated by me. When he wants it I never brush him off and he is never left wanting unless it is by his choice.
     
  4. kosmo

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    is he much older than you?
     
  5. KarmaBytes

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    No...less than 10 yrs but more than 6 yrs
     
  6. 2NA

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    There are too many variables to know for sure.

    It's possible that he has "Low T" that is cutting into his sex drive or maybe he just isn't "in" to you anymore.

    How old is he?
     
  7. KarmaBytes

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  8. TheMayor

    TheMayor Ten Time F1 World Champ
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    That's not much older at all.

    Relationships eb and flow all the time. I bet there were years were my parents could care less about each other and then fell in love all over again.

    Like someone said, there's too many variables. But, like all variables, things can get better IF you're willing to work at it.
     
  9. tundraphile

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    Give him some space and he will likely draw back to you. Do not make yourself so available, but don't be impossible either.

    After a few days, the next time you make him feel appreciated and you want to be with him he will respond.

    And whatever you do, don't pressure him.
     
  10. GuyIncognito

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    what does he do for a living? He could be bringing work stress home.
     
  11. GrigioGuy

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    Have you gotten fat?
     
  12. dm_n_stuff

    dm_n_stuff Four Time F1 World Champ
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    Are you searching here for a replacement?

    Seems odd that you'd come here and make your first couple of posts this personal in nature.

    I mean, after all, you have no clue what any of us are about, EXCEPT that we own Ferraris, right?

    Pretty trusting of you to be posting all this stuff for all of us to read and advise you on.

    Just askin'.
     
  13. KarmaBytes

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    To answer a few questions posted....no I have actually lost quite a bit of weight since our relationship began and the second question, just because my first couple of posts are personal in nature do not mean that I am automatically searching for a replacement. I joined the chatroom and this was an easy topic for me to begin speaking about and since there are alot of diverse men involved in this chatroom I felt that my post would be answered honestly and with a variety of prespectives that I could think on and hopefully apply and help my relationship.
     
  14. UroTrash

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  15. kosmo

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    funny assumption. Has HE gotten fat?
     
  16. Face76

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    I didn't think men were that diverse when speaking about having sex with younger women?
     
  17. 355tsr

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    don't forget the fact that women want to be made love to, and men well we just want *******. maybe a change of attitude from your point of view.
     
  18. VIZSLA

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    Speaking and doing, two different things ;)
     
  19. TexasF355F1

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    Don't get too upset about some of the posts. You'll quickly find out who the funny guys are. They don't really mean anything bad, it's just their nature. :)

    I'm dating a woman 10 years older than me. Our relationship isn't as serious as yours, but problems still can exist. We're actually texting/talking issues right now. I think a lot of ours stems from not seeing each other for 3 weeks and the semi-lack of communication we've had b/w that time.

    Maybe that's yalls problem, communication? Women tend to be subtle with their wants/what they're trying to communicate. And tend to say one thing when they mean something else. Men are straight to the point and mean what we say, verbatum.

    So sit down and talk. And stick around a while. Don't talk all the posts here too literally. You'll learn to laugh at them.
     
  20. wingfeather

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    #20 wingfeather, Jul 29, 2010
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    I don't understand this thread. How do you have more than one relationship with a man? And why bother dating an older man? Seems like a losing proposition to me.
     
  21. joba

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    Make lunch for the pool boy.;)
     
  22. Napolis

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    If Allen Lambo is to be believed most Ferrari owners are gay so perhaps you should ask your question on his Lambo site.
     
  23. Ferraribot

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    Maybe the relationship has just gotten comfortable and there isn't as much thrill. Try new things, eat dinner somewhere new, watch some porn with him, go to a titty bar, go on a vacation, e-mail him pictures of your boobies, text him and tell him you want some good nookie tonight, wear a tight dress and let him bend you over the hood of a Porsche in a parking garage.....not saying I'd ever do any of this myself or anything ;)
     
  24. TexasF355F1

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    lol
     
  25. DMaury

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    That's it; I'm dating YOU! ;)
     

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