Since I'm overwhelmed by joy....

sounds like a successful evening. congrats. dont worry about not getting any, all things happen when they are ready. For the sake of longevity, i believe it will work out better if you didnt score on the first date. I bet you had the best sleep in years.....

 

HaHa, glad you had a great time, thats all that counts... Im sure you and your friends will go on another fun outing sometime soon. When that date is set, be sure to PM right away, I want to go!

I believe you on how fine/gorgeous your girl/friends were. If you said that there were bout 10 people following you to the bar, and they started hitting on your friends before you got there, that means those guys havent had a drink (sober) yet hehe...

*If you and your friends are interested on going to Hollywood/Beverly Hills Nightclubs (hiphop/salsa/rock etc..), Pubs w/Live Band, Etc... Let me know, I got dozens of club promoters all over LA at different Venues, I can hook ya' up with VIP...

Take it easy Pat...

 

love long legs, hell, love legs...

x-gf was ~5'10"

new gf is 5'1"

 

Man Patrick, Im envious. I have mad crushes on 3 different girls right now and I cant seem to get a date alone with any of them...well, one is taken already, so I suppose thats a setback...The other two though? I can only dream

 

I wish! My ex was 6'0", so she just about matched me with heels on.. Current g/f is 5'9" and it's just about right (I'm somewhere between 6'3"-6'4" depending on what shoes I've got on and if I decide to stand up straight that day).

One of the hottest chicks I've ever seen was around 6'7".. Even though I was the second tallest person in the room I still couldn't get up the nerve to talk to her!

-Chris

 

Hmmm..... I think Patrick needs to start listening to some Leykis 101...

Generally, it's also a bad idea to get someone a gift that basically says "your life's f'd up".

My guess is, since you already know what her problems are, you're already stuck in the friend category....

 

Chill out and play the game. Chicks don't like too interested too fast. Make yourself a challenge. Buy the gifts later once your getting some.

 

I second that. 97.1 FM in the afternoon. I've learned some valuable stuff listening to Tom Leykis.

Don't get her a gift yet. Make her want you just as much as you want her. You start getting her gifts, she is gonna be overwhelmed and may slip you a cell phone bill or something cuz she needs help just one time and promises to pay you back.

Good luck with her man and keep your eyes open. Listen to Tom Leykis.

 

WOW! She is beautiful, nice smile too I dont blame you Pat... You should take her out dancing and see if she knows how to "Back That Thang UP!!!"

 

Glad you had a good time with the woman! Don't buy anything for her yet though, don't want to overwhelm her.

my 2 cents

 

My friend,
You definitely must take a deep breath and calm down and slow down,otherwise you will scare her off and it will leave you wonderin why you did what you did and what you shouldnt have done for the rest of your life.Been there, done that.I know you want to be a nice guy because you were taught to be one.You're gonna learn the truth the hard way.Leave a little mystery about yourself and dont try too hard to find gifts or give advise or learn Latvian.Tom Leykis says no gifts until you see her naked,I know you think this is probably too harsh but theres a lot of truth in this.Remember theres also a lot of truth in the saying"nice guys finish last"I learned this the hard way, if you dont scare her off,you become the "Friend".The one she runs to every time the latest boyfriend dumps,burns,fools around on her.You get to help her pick up the pieces and get her back on her feet,and for your time and trouble and heartbreak you get,"I cant sleep with you,you're like my brother!"So slow down and make her call you next time.
otherwise you'll be sorry!

 

How did that come up? Did her parents mention it to you first?

DL

 

T.M.I.

 

I'd be happy to recount some DUI horror stories for you.. let's just say that there's a good reason why I'm home on Fri & Sat nights posting on F-Chat.

-Chris

 

Im gonna go out on a limb.(imagine that)

DUDE! Be confident!

First: You want a bunch of guys with Ferraris to show up on your first date,

Then you drink yourself into a stupor and drive drunk,

Then you wake up wondering about what to buy her as a thank you gift???

Finally, you apologize to her parents for risking her life (even though they didn't bring it up) and even if you felt it was the right thing to do (for whatever reason), do you really think you endeared yourself to her father?

I don't know you so for me to say "Be yourself" might not be appropriate, but I can say self that unless this "Is" yourself...you should take a deep breath before you dig a deeper hole.

DL