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  1. The Speedfighter

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    #1 The Speedfighter, Jul 29, 2009
    Hey guys,

    Well a little while back I posted some issues regarding my girlfriend and how to deal with it.

    Again, last Saturday another problem occured. We had a conversation that I didn't do enough for her (like buy flowers and stuff). So I bought her a nice ring for our 6 months and a little dress for the bedroom she wanted to have. So last Saturday we're going shopping and she sees a t-shirt, so I said well get it I'll buy it for you. Everything good so I bring her to work as usual. So at 12:00 at night I pick her up from work to go home with me, and she doesn't wanna talk with me. So I said what's wrong? Well apparently I had to buy her shoes, but I don't earn that much yet as I'm just 22. I have my own house, car and bills to pay. So that night she wanted to break-up. She went totally crazy like she never done before. So I said please crash on the couch as I don't want to have you wondering around on the streets at 1 a.m.

    Well I go to bed, and she comes lying next to me. Both is like okay we'll get through this (3 break ups in 6 months). Next morning I woke up and I thought by myself maybe a break is good for both of us. So I tell her, and she agrees. So hardly any contact on Monday.

    pfff so much to tell, but I'll keep going.

    On Tuesday a old work mate (a girl) calls me that we haven't seen each other for a long time and if we can catch up. So yeah nice, we were really good friends back then but then I went back to my head office and we kinda lost contact. So we have lunch together, and she's asking questions like how's everything with your girlfriend etc. I told her that's been a bit difficult lately and we're kinda going through a break up. So lunch was finished and we're walking back to the exit, at that moment she pulls my shoulder and gave me a kiss on my lips. I pushed her away, I said don't cause I still love this girl etc. Well she apologised and felt pretty bad at that point.

    So that same night I have a conversation with my girlfriend that we have to work things out. But I wasn't sure if I should tell her that story so I didn't. But after a whole night of thinking I decided to actually tell her. So I rang her and said if we can see each other that night. And she knew there was something wrong. So I told her,and went totally crazy again (which this time I have a little bit more respect for that). And told me many times that I cheated on her, lied to her and that she never wants to see me again. So okay for me that was the end of that relationship.

    But now she keeps texting me that she wants to meet that other girl etc. So now at the moment I'm totally lost what to do.

    Can you please help me again!!
     
  2. Ducman491

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    #2 Ducman491, Jul 29, 2009
    The last thing you should do is get them together, there is no way it will end well. Tell her it is over and she needs to move on.
     
  3. wax

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    #3 wax, Jul 29, 2009
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    Change your number.

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  4. GrigioGuy

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    #4 GrigioGuy, Jul 29, 2009
    Yup. And go hit the other one :D
     
  5. agup48

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    #5 agup48, Jul 29, 2009
    Or both ;) :D
     
  6. wax

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    #6 wax, Jul 29, 2009
    Just say NO to psychos.
     
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    #7 GrigioGuy, Jul 29, 2009

    Oh man....you're going to make him date -guys- ;)
     
  8. The Speedfighter

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    #8 The Speedfighter, Jul 29, 2009
    hahaha +1 for that comment.

    But the thing is should I totally end everything or try to make it work after all this??
     
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    #9 GrigioGuy, Jul 29, 2009
    You're talking about a lady who is mad at you because you won't buy her shoes. Gifts are gifts, and shouldn't be expected nor required. You said yourself you need a break -- take one. Ignore her calls and take some time to clear your head. Grab your buds and go fishing or something, pick up a new hobby, learn to play drums.
     
  10. wax

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    #10 wax, Jul 29, 2009
    She's history.

    wax-man-rule; You have 5 minutes to get her out of your system.

    Go.
     
  11. The Speedfighter

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    #11 The Speedfighter, Jul 29, 2009
    Guys again thanks again so much!!

    Well at least there's a girl here who only wants to have a f-buddy. The only negative thing is she work at the same company. But she said she won't say anything at all as she doesn't wanna get us in trouble. So I need to think about that now if it's a yes or no :)
     
  12. wax

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    #12 wax, Jul 29, 2009
    Well, I'm sure you feel better now, having gotten her completely out of your system.

    Crack that whip
    Give the past the slip
    Step on a crack
    Break your mommas back
    When a problem comes along
    You must whip it
    Before the cream sits out too long
    You must whip it
    When somethings going wrong
    You must whip it

    Now whip it
    Into shape
    Shape it up
    Get straight
    Go forward
    Move ahead
    Try to detect it
    Its not too late
    To whip it
    Whip it good

    When a good time turns around
    You must whip it
    You will never live it down
    Unless you whip it
    No one gets away
    Until they whip it

    I say whip it
    Whip it good
    I say whip it
    Whip it good

    Crack that whip
    Give the past the slip
    Step on a crack
    Break your mommas back
    When a problem comes along
    You must whip it
    Before the cream sits out too long
    You must whip it
    When somethings going wrong
    You must whip it

    Now whip it
    Into shape
    Shape it up
    Get straight
    Go forward
    Move ahead
    Try to detect it
    Its not too late
    To whip it
    Into shape
    Shape it up
    Get straight
    Go forward
    Move ahead
    Try to detect it
    Its not too late
    To whip it
    Whip it good
     
  13. Steveny360

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    #13 Steveny360, Jul 29, 2009
    everyone wants what they can't have and discounts what they can have.

    You get a lot further in life when you're with someone who wants to be with you and not your wallet.

    Fidelity that can be bought can also be trumped by someone with more money than the first purchaser.
     
  14. The Speedfighter

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    #14 The Speedfighter, Jul 29, 2009
    That's true what you all said!!!

    Now about that girl from work. Reckon do it (and I'm 100% sure she keeps her mouth shut) or don't do it??
     
  15. fastback33

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    #15 fastback33, Jul 29, 2009
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    Jesus Christ.... Do you ask for water when you are dying of thirst?

    Your first girl used you, basically you're a sucker. Sorry it's harsh but it's true, she gave you a **** test, and you lost out, she was pushing you to see how easily she could manipulate you. It would have never worked for YOU because she was the dominant one. Eventually, she would have gotten bored and probably cheated on you if she wasn't already, with a guy that was more interesting and didn't put up with her bs. Call her, text her, do whatever you do to let her know to lose your number and never call again.

    Secondly, this other girl obviously likes you. No girl calls you out of nowhere just to say "hi" unless she has been thinking about you. Thanks to you telling her about your ex-issues put her in a fantasy where she could come and change all of that, and make YOU happy. Women love fantasies, play it up and don't screw it up. You can also add a new edge that will drive her crazy by telling her you guys shouldn't be doing this, blah blah blah and then going crazy doing it and whatever you like to do to your girlfriends.

    Just my .02
     
  16. The Speedfighter

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    #16 The Speedfighter, Jul 29, 2009
    Straight out, but d*mn you're so right!!!!
     
  17. TexasF355F1

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    #17 TexasF355F1, Jul 30, 2009
    Well, put. Listen to this guy.

    If a girl is not happy because you're not buying her something, drop that ***** like a bad habit.

    My roommate just got out of a relationship fairly similar to yours. He bought her all sorts of stuff, pretty much everything in the kitchen was bought because of her. She controlled everything they did, always had plans Saturdays and Sundays. They broke up at Valentines the first time, then got back together.

    Come June, she starts telling him he's selfish, he won't let her into his life enough, and into his house enough. He was like she has a ton of close in his closest, a key to his house, everything in the kitchen was bought for her, what the hell else does she want? They're not together and he's better off with out her.

    Get rid of this girl and go to the other girl. She sounds like a far better catch.
     
  18. enjoythemusic

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    #18 enjoythemusic, Jul 30, 2009
    LISTEN TO FASTBACK!!!!!!!!!!! He is preaching the truth. You are young so new at this, us older guys have seen it, been there, done it, run it... Please take fastback's advice.

    If old girlfriend keeps calling, texting, etc even after you ask her to stop, CHANGE YOUR TELE# (or file a harassment suit and YOU MUST follow through in court). If you do not change number or take her to court, she will abuse the next guy, and the next. She needs to learn a life lesson too.
     
  19. Remy Zero

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    #19 Remy Zero, Jul 30, 2009
    dump that girl that wanted u to buy shoes, etc for her.
     
  20. TG

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    #20 TG, Jul 30, 2009
    You are too young. PM me your email....
     
  21. neilmac

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    #21 neilmac, Jul 30, 2009

    Careful.........who has more to lose here, you or her?
     

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