Not too many people are encouraging the OP to drive different models and see which one is his thing. It comes down to the base question; Are you looking for a classy ride to occasionally take your wife out to dinner or a raw car with character that you can easily track? Just remember to drive a 458 also before making the decision. I drove one last year and it's an experience. Very easy to handle, fast and feels like a modern supercar. I own a stickshift 360 Modena. Last of the "analog" line of cars. Love it and will never sell it. Perhaps you should take one for a drive too. Value is holding nicely.