Why are divorces so expensive...

you're in that puppy love phase like when you started dating your ex, wait till you need 5 weeks and alot of money to repair 6th gear that burned up bc it was short on gear oil or 2 weeks and $3800 for a clutch position sensor/new bearings......I still love mine but dont kid yourself its a marriage too, I now have 2 expensive, needy wives......I still love my ferrari even with all its put me through.....

 

If you have to ask for permission then you shouldn't have been married to begin with.

Did you also have to ask for permission to use the washroom, and/or to hang out with your friends?

 

One of my pet peeves about today's man. I hate it when guys say things like that..."Oh I'll just have to ask the wife!"

I don't "ask" my wife about ANYTHING I do or want. I might talk to her about something but in the end if I want to do or buy something I do it.

Grow a set...

 

My comment about "asking the wife" was not addressed to you specifically Matt so sorry for that You got me going on a rant because I know allot of guys who talk like that and it really pisses me off....like that line in The Godfather, "You can start by acting like a man!" SLAP! LOL

BTW: My first wife is also an Italian girl from the Bronx but her name is Fran....she was a foul-mouthed ***** as well, that's why she became my ex after a short time...no kids so I got off easy

Enjoy the Ferrari!!

 

so, when you want to have sex with your wife, do you just rip off her clothes and go at it?

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Marriage is a partnership not a dictatorship. “our money, our home” etc. perhaps if some of you approached it in this manner instead of “ this is what’s happening and tough **** if you don’t like it” It might be WAY less expensive.
Always get a chuckle when a few divorced individuals pipe up and tell me how things should be!

 

I was so relieved when I got divorced, but it wasn't expensive. Neither of us was happy, so it was easy. Best thing? No lawyer made a dime (Except for the salaried judge).

 

LOL well in the beginning pretty much YES but after 27 years of marriage it usually does takes some planning and persuasion.....and sometimes a passive-aggressive threat or two

 

So much this.....easy to see why the "big balls" types get into bad relationships. I don't have to ask for permission either....because my partner trusts that decisions I make will not harm the family in any way.

 

That's exactly right. Asking for permission isn't partnership, is it?

 

I didn’t ask my wife’s permission to buy my 360....but I did have to deal with her icing me out for a 2-3months after. She’s cool now but feels about it the same way I feel about her parents, which is to say, looking forward to the day when they’re gone.

 

my wife is completely fine with me buying cars .. she tells her friends she would rather have me chasing 4 wheels then a skirt...so sometimes I mention it and sometimes I forget!!.. that is one thing she is pretty cool about....

 

Before I bought my Ferrari I discussed it with my wife. I asked her opinion and her only concern was my safety because she thought I would be driving it 200mph all day every day. She knows I'm an avid car guy, and supports me in everything I do.

I told her, if that's the only problem, then there is no poblem.

 

So, all of you "big balled do what I want" guys.

How about this.

You wife comes home with a $10,000 handbag, a $20,000 cocktail ring and $40,000 worth of new clothing, without having talked with you about it first.

Do you:

1. Congratulate her for having balls as big as yours.
2. Call a divorce lawyer. After all, it's YOUR money too.
3. not even bat an eye. After all, she's making more money than you anyway.

Just wondering if the, "Spend what you want" policy swings both ways in your family.

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Oh and the lovely headers oh Yeah boy those headers and that clutch. But I gotta day I’ll always have a spot for my 07 F430abdo spider. Enjoy. Then upgrade when you can to realize the progression Ferrari made in true form. I went from my 430 to 458 and then yesterday purchased 488 spider so I can wait to realize the shift from 458 to 488, delivery Tuesday

 

Yes it does swing both ways if she is making her own money like my wife does

If she was home in front of the TV or in the gym and sipping skinny late’s with her friends while I was working 16 hours a day to pay for it all then NO.

 

Amen brah...

 

What is a cocktail ring?

 

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Not the perfect example, but a pricey ring that DOESN'T serve any purpose other than to show off one's wealth. Usually large center stone surrounded by diamonds. I suppose one wore them to cocktail parties, back when people threw cocktail parties. Apparently the name dates to the 1920's.

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GD! That does look like $20K lol

I wouldn’t be happy if my wife bought one lol