...why do women think that when we're having an orgasm we are supposed to be thinking about THEM...?
Actually, it depends on what you are "checking out" and how. Men can derive sexual gratification through visual means. Therefore, if your "checking out" translates as "wow, that butt is just what I'd like to get a hand on," or "oooh, she gets my engine hittin' on all 12," you are getting sexual pleasure from another woman. Now ask yourself, do you want your wife getting sexual pleasure from another guy? Shiny Side Up! Bill
Hahaha... I don't know about after getting married, but either way I think it's a ridiculous, unrealistic expectation. As long as men have eyeballs in their heads they're going to look at other women, bottom line. Women look at other men, too, we just do it much more inconspicuously and don't comment. My boyfriend makes comments and I tell him what I think. Hell, we go to the strip clubs together and talk about women. I'll even ask him what he thinks about this one or that one. I'm not at all afraid he's going to run off with the other woman, but that's because I'm not insecure, whereas many women are, and that's what ultimately makes it an issue.
Why do women think that if you are watching a tv show, the guy will somehow "magically" be able to explain all the plot twists and answer all the questions that will show up in the last 5 minutes? My wife does this all the time, drives me nuts. "Who is that guy? Why did he kill that girl? What's going to be in the suitcase? What is the thing the detective covered up?" I DON"T KNOW! We've been watching the same show, does it look like I'm reading along with a study guide?
And there's an extension to that. If you put the +/- symbol in front of the square root symbol, you can take the root evil to be the |absolute| value, so that it equates to "absolute evil". J/K of course! I showed the joke to my fiancee ages ago, and we both laughed. ~shahedc .
Wow, I never understand you girls that go with or take your men to strip clubs?? seems so conterproductive to me?? You say you're not insecure, yet you go with him to the strip clubs.....
Perceive it as you wish, I go and enjoy myself. Sometimes I suggest we go and others he goes with his friends. Everyone is different, but don't presume I have an ulterior motive.