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how many refer to others on board as "friend" yet have never met?

Discussion in 'Other Off Topic Forum' started by JimSchad, May 3, 2004.

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  1. JimSchad

    JimSchad Guest

    I constantly am telling stories or advice I got from a "ferrari friend" etc. I do it partly because I like you guys, but also to avoid saying "this guy I never met in person, but feel like I know from my chat room".

    How many others do this?
     
  2. chaa

    chaa F1 Veteran

    Mar 21, 2003
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    Well i would say i am on %80 of the UKs forum ignore list.I have met a few good dudes on the general that i have spoken to on the phone or spoken to via PM.
     
  3. UroTrash

    UroTrash Three Time F1 World Champ
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    Wow, you're creeping me out. Not really.

    I think for the most part, people are more or less what they say they are on here, in sharp contrast to alot of the teen-age type chat rooms. I'm sure we have some exagerators and posers but I doubt many (excepting the folks who give zero info in profile).

    Having said that, I feel like most folks are real people, that in a way, do seem to be friends (now I'm creeping myself out) since there seems to be no incentive to fake it, like creeps do in teen-age chat rooms.
     
  4. Eric308gtsiqv

    Eric308gtsiqv Formula 3

    Nov 26, 2001
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    Yes...I've been fortunate to meet several F-Chatters here whom I consider to be good friends! To date, I've only had the opportunity to meet about half of them in person.
     
  5. Fan512bbi

    Fan512bbi Two Time F1 World Champ
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    Mar 25, 2004
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    I see my friend a couple of times a week yet i come here everyday, so in a way i would say yes you guys are my friends. (hopefully)
     
  6. bubba

    bubba Formula 3

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    There are many here that I would consider friends, even though we have never met before. I've chatted with several via instant messengers before. I have met several guys thanks to this board.
     
  7. WJHMH

    WJHMH Two Time F1 World Champ
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    Friend
    n.
    1 A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts.
    2 A person whom one knows; an acquaintance.
    3 A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade.
    4 One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group, cause, or movement: friends of the clean air movement.

    I've have met some great people on this site, they have helped me & I try to return the favor. I've never asked for much except for advice on various automotive questions to business transactions. Some have even offered prayer in time of need. Yes, I’m proud to refer the members of Fchat as my friends. You know who you guys & gals are.

    Thanks.

    Will
     
  8. JimSchad

    JimSchad Guest

    I guess I wasn't really asking if you consider people on the board your friend. What I really meant was that if I tell a story or say I was given some advice by someone I "know" on this board I do the yadda yadda thing and just call them a friend...rather than explain that it is a guy I feel like I know, but really I have never met him since we just talk on a chat board.
     
  9. TimN88

    TimN88 F1 Veteran

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    Some people tend to do that but not me. I only refer to people i am actually friends with as friends. Friends DO NOT include someone i met once or twice. Those would be classified as 'people i know'.
     
  10. Ron328

    Ron328 F1 Rookie
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    I say..."from a Ferrari (enthusiast) website."
     
  11. SkizoACE

    SkizoACE Formula Junior

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    I have never met anyone on this board, but I would consider them friends.
     
  12. ryalex

    ryalex Two Time F1 World Champ
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    I say, "from a discussion board I go to"

    But yes Jim, I've run into this a few times. My rule of thumb is when I meet them or exchange personal stories/info through emails or PM's they get up into the general 'friend' category and don't mention the F-chat thing.

    Some people who are used to the web understand online friends/chat buddies idea, people who don't use computers think we're crazy. Then there's people who use computers but still don't trust anyone online.
     
  13. AJS328

    AJS328 F1 Veteran
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    There are quite a few people on this site that I consider friends that I haven't met yet. Obviously there are many different levels of friendship but there are plenty of people that I've met and see frequently that I am not as friendly with as some of the guys I know on here that I've yet to meet.
     
  14. FrostCS

    FrostCS Karting

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    "Everyone is your friend, until you consider them your enemy."
    I think that should go for everyone here as well. :)
    If you consider something you got someone enjoyable, then wouldn't you consider that person your friend? I think that applies to information and stories as well.
    You don't need to meet someone, or see that person everyday for him/her to be your friend. To me a friend is anyone you can exchange a conversation with. That applies to a teacher, a tutor, the girl at the deli who always knows what type of sandwich you want, or each and every one of you.
    CS
     
  15. jimpo1

    jimpo1 Two Time F1 World Champ
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    Damn Jim, do you preface everything with Ferrari? 'Ferrari Friend', 'Ferrari Jim', etc. :D

    Yes, there are people on this board that I've never met that I consider friends. There are people on this board that I've never met that my kids consider friends too. Well actually, they consider him more of a Santa Claus. He knows who he is!
     
  16. Tyler

    Tyler F1 Rookie

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    Same here.


    I agree Michael, one of the chief reasons I enjoy this site. As for the zero info in the profile thing.....well.....I like my privacy. If my integrity here ever comes into question there are a few members who can vouch for me. :)
     
  17. Liberace The Great

    Apr 22, 2004
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    I'd like to be your friend. Six pack abs! Mmmmmmm.........:)
     
  18. AnotherDunneDeal

    AnotherDunneDeal F1 Veteran

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    Sure I refer to most of you guys as friends. Most, but not all. And there are some I just refer to as a**holes.............:>)
     
  19. Jim J. Bullock.

    Apr 22, 2004
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    Then there are people you KNOW!!! You strapping oarsman, you!

    Whos your anchor?
     
  20. AnotherDunneDeal

    AnotherDunneDeal F1 Veteran

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    Hey Libo,

    I looked up your other three posts. I do not think you are one of those I will refer to as friend. I do not know if you qualify for the other or not. Next time you see him say hello to Mr. Rogers for me...................................
     
  21. Liberace The Great

    Apr 22, 2004
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    James,

    I am a friend to all. And by the way, Fred Rogers says hello. :)
     
  22. Jim J. Bullock.

    Apr 22, 2004
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    Hey Pi-A-NO-Man!!! Shtay out of my henhouse.

    DL
     
  23. TSMIV

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    Jan 27, 2004
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    I constantly do this and for the same reasons.
     
  24. alanhenson

    alanhenson Formula 3

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    I have several I have met and several I have not met. Lot's of great guys on here.
     
  25. Chiaro_Slag

    Chiaro_Slag F1 Veteran

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    Lots of people I would consider friends on here that I have never met. So many people have helped me out. It's just extra cool when you get to finally meet some of them - Like Aug! :)

    It's funny that when you meet them, you don't call them by their real names, but by their screen names, lol.
     

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