I'm looking for another handgun, primarily for home/car defense and possible concealed carry, and for use at the range. I want something with stopping power, but that is tame enough that my wife can use it with no problems. I have always been a Beretta fan, but EVERYONE loves Glock ??? I want a compac,t not sub-compact probably a 9mm. A .40 will recoil too much for her I think ??? I have been looking at the Beretta 9000S, and the Glock 19, Love the new H&K P2000 but it's a bit out of my price range. Anyone have expirence with either of these guns ? or anything else comparable ? Thanks !!