Ok, I know I posted about pre-nups before but the subject has come up again. This girl I have been dating for a awhile and swears we are going to get married(i think other wise at least right now). One day she brought it up and I said if and when I do she will sign a pre nup and then I asked her if she would sign one. bla bla bla. So she sent me this today she read it somewhere.. Deciding what you'll do when your relationship fails seems like a pretty pessimistic way to start a union that's supposed to last your entire lives. Isn't marriage about sharing all of yourself and your life with another person? Drawing up a prenup says you're willing to share your life but not your bank account. If you have that many doubts about your partner's character or commitment you probably shouldn't be walking down the aisle. How should I respond...?