Believe me..... Deciding to stop playing house is a lot less brain damaging and cheaper that getting divorced. I for one am thankful that I did what I did rather than do what others think I should have done. Did that make any sense.....heh ? When the time came to get married......the litmus test was positive and away I went. I've never been happier after 6 years together (4 married) than I was with the others due to the life experience gained beforehand.